I'm attracted to intelligent people. However, I am *NOT* attracted to intelligent people who feel the need to belittle others and flaunt their intelligence. There are ways to use intelligence and ways to abuse intelligence.
I don't really consider whether my significant other is more or less intelligent than myself. As long as 2 people are happy together and communicate well, that's all that matters. I think it's good to have someone who can challenge you intellectually, but someone doesn't necessarily have to be *smarter* than you to make you think in different ways.
2007-02-09 07:55:00
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answered by lastbeautflgirl 2
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I am attracted to intelligence and/or people smarter than me. Intelligence is actually really important to me in a relationship. It's one of the first things I look for. However, I realize that there are many different "types" of intelligence, and I have always found it rewarding to be with someone who has a different kind of intelligence than I do. For example, I am really "booksmart" and my boyfriend has more of a creative intelligence. In terms of the degree of intelligence, I enjoy being matched with my partner. In short, I like learning about other ways of seeing and interpreting the world from people different than me!
2007-02-09 15:56:26
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answered by alissadyan 1
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Smarter is always attractive to me - Intelligence is far more important to me than looks are, and I'm never afraid of someone smarter than me, if anything I'm drawn to it - before any other quality.
2007-02-09 15:53:06
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answered by svmainus 7
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A guy has to be more intelligent than me. I will have to say that i am my self but i am attracted to men more intelligent then me. But i always end up being attracted to guys who aren't and guys who whine like little babies and i have to explain a lot of things. They try to argue and i win the arguement because of my intelligence.. I think i am afraid of people less intelligent than me. But it doesn't matter. If they are not that then i just have to move on. It's all about the personality, huh? =)
Have a nice day.
2007-02-09 15:53:59
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answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7
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many intelligent people can still be naive,
i am attracted to the ones who have a sense
of life as a whole in nature ~ intelligence is
an ascending gradient of illumination toward
life, intelligence is a sense of what is around
in life and how you perceive it in reference to
yourself ~
2007-02-10 13:04:44
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answered by ♪σρսϟ яэχ♪ 7
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It's important that he is NOT less intelligent than me. That's a turn-off.
2007-02-09 15:56:21
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answered by Ivy 3
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oh man if she is smarter than I am I can't stay away from he
I chase her and chase her until i get what I want
I am so attracted to intelligence
smile
good luck
2007-02-09 17:16:50
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answered by Anonymous
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i don't care if he is smarter than me or not. there are still things i will know to teach him and him me. either one i'm attracted too. but if he ends up being dummer than a loaf of bread then i would be a little afraid.
2007-02-09 15:54:06
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answered by apolloK♫ 4
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A truley intellegent person will never let you know they are more intellegent then you. My wife makes me think I'm smarter but I know better. Or do I?
2007-02-09 15:53:32
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answered by Ron P 3
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smarter is attractive in a big way...keep my mind stimulated with great conversation
2007-02-09 15:51:55
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answered by it's still me 5
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