my common sence tells me a guy knows what another guy likes and ditto for gay women. does it make sence and/or get some of you thinking?
2007-02-09 07:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by wanderingstar 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No way. People are all very individual, and I've seen lesbian women who haven't the slightest idea how to please another woman, and gay men who just aren't very good at what they do. Gays and lesbians can be just as bad lays in bed as anyone else; having the same genitalia doesn't mean anything, although it can certainly help in understanding anatomy. But again, since every woman and man is different and likes different things, just sharing the same set of genitals isn't going to magically make you better.
I do believe, though, that gay and lesbian individuals often have 'better sex' in terms of being more open-minded . . . they are more willing to be equal partners in the sex, to be versatile in terms of who does what to whom (not that they have to switch it up, but try doing that in typical hetero sex!), to use a variety of toys, to try more things and positions, to accept different kinds of sex . . . of course, it's not true for all of them, and there are more than a few straight people like that, but it's just something I believe.
2007-02-09 18:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. It doesn't matter if two gay guys are going at it, or two gay girls; if they don't know what they're doing, they'll suck at it. What I find pleasurable isn't what the next women will find pleasurable, same goes for guys.
I find this really heterophobic in the fact that straight sex is being implied as being lesser or not as good. It's just not too. lack of information, experience, maturity, and a number of other things factor into this as well.
2007-02-09 07:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gay, but I was married to a woman for quite a while. For me the sex with a man is a lot better than sex with a woman.
2007-02-09 07:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by ron s 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but two women are more pleasing to watch. A good lover knows what the other partner likes. There are selfish and bad lovers, gay or not.
2007-02-09 07:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cory returns, again! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. Just because one woman likes one thing, doesn't mean I like it to. Everyones sexual needs are different. Women do not automaticly know womens bodies. Yes, all the same things are in all the same spots, so it is easier for women to locate the clit, but that doesn't mean that every woman alive is going to like the exact same thing.
2007-02-09 08:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of gay people tend to be more passionate. And passion is the key to being a great lover. At least I think it is.
2007-02-09 08:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by TheOriginalSin♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that would depend on the lovers not their gender being the same or different. There are good and bad lovers in any group.
2007-02-09 08:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by C E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me you are comparing apples to oranges here. They are two completely different types of activities, and should not be compared.
Also to me, one is no more "right" or "wrong" than the other, and neither deserves to be disparaged. They are just different.
2007-02-09 07:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i think they do, i get bored w/ men but me and my girl have a pretty good sexual relationship...PRETTY HOT ;) hehe anyway yeah i think gay sex is better i guess cuz ur partner knows what u want
2007-02-09 08:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on how good you communicate on what turns you on and where and how hard or the speed to preseed
2007-02-09 07:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋