do people without kids understand what its like to have kids and how much hard work it is? or do they just say that they dont want kids because they are afraid they may never have any
2007-02-09 07:07:01 · 9 answers · asked by mum of 2 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I didn't understand at all until I had them. I used to say "there is no way I would let my kid do this or that" when I saw parents letting their kids do things, but when I had mine I completely understand. You have to pick your battles.
2007-02-09 07:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Gummy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are no problem kids, only adults with problems. Kids are the victims if adults cant handle or meet their own needs, much less provide care for a helpless child. Some people honestly should never have children, other people are meant to be parents.
2007-02-09 15:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No- having kids is not something you can imagine until you do it. It changes your entire view on life. There is nothing to compare it to- bottom line. I never wanted kids when I was young, now I can't imagine any other way.
2007-02-09 15:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know kids are hard work, which is why I don't engage in the activities required to have them, and I won't until I'm happily married with a good enough job to support them.
2007-02-09 15:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a grandpa of three beautiful granddaughters. age 5 and 3yr old twins who used to get to take care of them, and they were a handful.... now that they have moved far away I can say that they would be no problem at all... I would take care of them any time.
2007-02-09 15:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by idahomike2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no they are perfect
are you thinking about having kids?
kids are fun and enjoable in our lives
2007-02-09 15:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by giddyupwithme 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't want kids b/c I want to go where I want and do what I want when I want too. Its selfish to think otherwise.
2007-02-09 15:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
maybe it's because they now how it will change their lives and they don't want to make that type of change.
2007-02-09 15:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by goldenbrowngod 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they are a problem somtimes
2007-02-09 15:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by xGoldScorpionx 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋