husbands and wifes are both welcomed to answer..
please mention details of things you keep and try to refresh romance and love with your mate.
2007-02-09 07:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never lose interest! Always show your attraction, and if you have kids, do it in front of them, too! Kids love nothing more than to see their parents in love, and it also teaches them how to love!
My husband and I have the S.H.M.I.L.Y. system. We both appreciate each other and show it. SHMILY stands for See How Much I Love You. Doing little extra things for each other that will lighten the load on the day. My husband will throw a load of laundry in in the morning before he goes to work, and attach that same sticky note to the washer that we wrote SHMILY on 8 years ago. I just love it! And then it's my turn......HMMMMM......I'll think of something.......!
2007-02-09 07:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been married 6 years. Me 25 him 28. With 2 kids. And I think its important to not always expect that "honeymoon" romance. Things do change when you are with someone for quite some time and that phase does die out somewhat. For us its spur of the moment things that keep things from going dull. We do get in a routine with sex, but you have to break away from it from time to time. A routine is good so you continue to have that contact but when schedules aren't so crazy get wild and freaky! We already know what we like and don't like. So it's all about finding that balance.
2016-03-28 23:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for ten year and the passion in the bedroom has finally boomed. We went through dryspells and rough patches, but we learned through counciling how to kepp the passion alive. First always have a compliment handy, from you look beautiful to god you have a great ***. My husband likes it when I say he's beautiful and god I love your hands...all over my body. When we are at work, we will text kinky messages or leave breathless voicemails. So that by the time one of us gets home we are so worked up over each other that we basically want to just rip our clothes off when we come into the door. Plus its great fun. Also, if you have children, its important to set aside your time and make sure you show the kids how much you love each other. Then sometimes they egg it on...ie "Mommy did you kiss daddy yet today?"
2007-02-09 07:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As time goes by it get hard to keep the romance alive in your relationship.
But If you love your partner then it`s well worth the effort.
It`s mainly the little things that count, I for instance love a cup of tea on a weekend in bed, I love my feet being massaged, If i`ve had a day off work and haven`t started the tea (which isn`t often) ... then my partner will get the tea started. He is soooooooooo good to me that it`s hard to belive.
Even when i have my moods he`s great.
I do all that i can in return for him, even if it`s seems somthing and nothing.
We have been together 3 years and planning our wedding on the 28th of April this year. We are both in our middle years and even at this age we have to still work at it. It`s like an uphill climb sometimes ..........but it`s worth it : )
2007-02-09 07:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tatty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We flirt all the time ,I call him at work and tell him I miss him and can not wait to see him.In the morning I leave little notes telling him what I want to do to him that night,
He has left roses in my car,and when I drive my daughter to school in the morning I find the roses waiting for me.
Buying cards just to say I love you even though it's not an occasion.Been married 14 yrs !
2007-02-09 07:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by selma b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We spend alot of time together doing fun things and sometimes just holding hands and talking and cuddling. We love to watch movies together and go out on dates and out to eat and things. We love shopping together and buying each other nice things and gifts just because. We date often and try new and fun things together to keep our romance and love alive and refreshed:) Loving each other unconditionally and having fun together keeps things from getting boring and humdrum. dating is very important and doing fun things together just because. Love is spelled Time!
2007-02-09 07:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that people often times forget reasons they fell in love with the other person. Try to treat them the same way that you did when you first dated...Flirting, respect, love notes, sex...keep it all up. Don't ever let anyone else come between you. You are supposed to be best friends.
2007-02-09 07:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Face 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do simple things for each other, my husband makes me a bath after I have had a hard day at work. He sends me text messages, and I send him text messages. I buy him little cards and notes in his lunch to tell him that I am thinking about him.
2007-02-14 10:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Christie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless them. Shower compliment on them and show that you appreciate them...then watch the romance come back into your life. Love is a gift...so give it and it will be returned.
2007-02-09 07:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do out of the ordinary things like instead dinner and a movie try a night a slow jams and crazy love making.
2007-02-16 16:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by sassy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋