does being married disturb your career path to the worst.. or does it enhance it..
i m male in late 20s
2007-02-09 06:52:23 · 16 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It enhanced my husband's. He gets love, respect, affection. Someone who cares listens to his work issues. He gets nice dinners after work, his clothes are always in order. He gets a massage after a hard day. And after work/weekends he has a companion to have fun with to relieve stress. Just marry the right girl.
2007-02-09 06:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get married - It wont last until you realize that Love has nothing to do with your career.You marry because that person you wake up to everyday makes your life happy in every way and until your heart cant go on without that person in your life-The only person that could enhance your career is you and the effort you put into life-your boss could care less if you were married or not.STABLE people behave and present themselves that way. Take a good look at the way your presenting yourself-Your on the right track by asking for advise but read your question again-Doesn't it sound silly? Love is unconditional -A job could always be changed-people change careers all the time they usually don't change their wife's as much as they change their jobs? Think about this some more.
2007-02-16 13:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by vox179 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a general one so the general answer is NO. You'd be hard pressed to find a job that the employer says career advancement is not suitable for married people. In fact, this country has not yet elected a president who is not married. Married people are considered more "steady", "mature", "responsible", "emotionally more stable" and "committed" on day to day matters and time of emergency.
Even jobs that are considered dangerous or require great commitment of time and discipline such as military and law enforcement, you still find those people from generals to foot soldiers being married and have to deal with separation. Some jobs that require a lot of traveling or long hours that often end up in divorces, such as sales and entrepeneurs, the employers would not discriminate married or single candidates.
Mature adults appreciate the balance of work and emotional support from their spouses and children and in fact derive their motivation from them. Workaholics may consider family a drag. They work more time for sure, but there is no proof one way or the other they work better.
2007-02-09 07:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that marriage to the right person would enhance every aspect of your life including work and career.
2007-02-17 02:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being married shouldn't disturb you career path unless you have decided to become a homemaker after marriage. You can continue as you were.
2007-02-09 07:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by swanser 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will disturb it. If you're more career oriented, and you get alot of pleasure from your career, avoid getting married. Marriage isn't for everybody. It's okay NOT to get married.
2007-02-09 07:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who you marry for example if marry a women that wants to be a house wife then it may work but if you marry a women who has always been independent things may not work out so well.
2007-02-16 07:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a double edge sword at work it gives you something to look forward too and see that what your working for is everything that is important but if you argue before it just makes your time go that much harder and leaves you with alot of time to think and ley your mind wander
2007-02-16 14:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by urcrzy_aya_diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're future spouse is supportive, it would enhance your career - if not, then you've got some things to talk about. you should both have similar wants/needs for the future, both professionally and personally....talk to her about it.
2007-02-09 07:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is DEEPLY disturbing.
2007-02-15 11:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by frigginhilarious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋