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Do ex's usually come back? I'm just curious and wanting to know other's take on this...any personal experiences? An ex is an ex for a reason, but why is it that they come back after awhile, even after THEY've dumped you? I'm in a situation like this now...my ex gf left me, but this has happened before, (my ex left, but came back, etc), but this time I believe my ex has moved on for good. I admit, I was hurt, cuz in the end I thought we'd work out...I had high hopes. Everytime I asked my ex if she really wanted me to leave her be, she'd be like yes, then the next day no...etc. But now, she's told me she's trying to have a faithful relationship with her new gf (even though she cheated on her w/ me), and feels like I'm gonna ruin that for her. I've accepted it, but still text here and there. It's only been 2 days since I last text...she doesn't contact me anymore, I contact her. What I'm wondering is, if I let it go and ignore, do ex's usually come back on their own term? why?

2007-02-09 06:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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Your ex is a player....if she's messed with you behind her new gf's back....then isn't that something enough to tell you that she might've done the same to you before when you two were together? there's an issue that needs to be confronted by your ex and to herself only...only thing for you...is to move on with your life...sorry to be so blunt, honestly, you just need to move on away...do not respond to her anymore.

2007-02-09 06:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 1 1

Personally, I think exes come back around because it offers some comfort and familiarity. The mind has a way of forgetting the really ugly stuff and seeing the past as rose colored...that's why we recall former relationships as being better than what they really were.

I know when I have been ignored and think the other has moved onto something more satisfying, I would begin to wonder about them. Living well really is the best revenge, it does something to the other person.

2007-02-09 06:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 1 1

Seems as if you posted this again, I can tell you really love her a lot... Tell you what... You know the old saying "if you let something you love go, and it comes back, then it was meant to be" well, it's true, so just let her be, because you could become an annoyance to her, and you don't want that. Just text her one last time and say "I am very happy for you, that your happy, and I really do hope everything works out for you and (her new g/f's name) Best of luck in everything you do. Then leave her alone unless she talks to you first, then kind of be short with her, but not snoty, just backoff-ish. When you tell her that, she will either freak out because she wants to be with you, and is really playing hard to get, or she will not contact you, because she really does want to be with this new girl. It's hard I know... but you just gotta deal with it. She will come back if she really wants you to. Best of luck, and if you wanna chat.. here's my info.
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2007-02-09 06:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

If you have an ex but he or she has come back and YOU allow them to be back in your life the way it USED to be then he or she is no longer an ex.

If there are unresolved matters they will be back. Such as unfairness or unanswered questions about the relationship or perhaps ambiguity in the non verbal messages that one gives.

It works both ways.

Like little children or foreign speakers to our natural tongue, because of the limitations of understanding the verbal language they and many of us (generally speaking here), tend to read body language to help them understand what is being communicated.

So they (ex's) come back into your life because you have given mixed messages run by unresolved issues from either party. And this happens because YOU (generally speaking again) ALLOW this to happen.

2007-02-09 07:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie Luv 1 · 1 1

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2016-05-24 02:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey. You need to let this girl go. Even if she does try to come back. There is Way too much garbage in her. She cheats and lies. She left you. You deserve so much better. This one is not the right one for you. Please learn to love yourself and then you would never put up with this crap.

2007-02-09 13:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lorien 2 · 0 1

Once you get to the stage of being ex's the whole pattern of the relationship has changed.. I don't think she's coming back. If she cheats on her new gf..she'll cheat on you.

2007-02-09 08:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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2014-08-19 19:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if they love you they come back.

if they don't they stay gone.

sounds like she's trying to be gone. let her go. move on yourself. don't relying on texting to continue some unreal relationship. If she's not calling you and coming over - a text here and there means nothing.

sorry.

2007-02-09 06:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0 1

Leave her alone. If you continue to contact her is could be considered stalking. Get over it, she has a new gf and you two are done.

2007-02-09 06:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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