I mean, I think I kind of feel the same for him, but i'm notsure, and i really do not want to hurt him, at all
2007-02-09 06:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you dont KNOW how you feel, than its best not to get in a relationship. All through middle school and highschool, my best guy friend had a crush on me or me him, and the timing was all off. By the time we got older we realized if we had ever gotten together, it would have ruined our friendship, and we made the decision to stay friends, over a relationship. Just be there for him, and let him know you are looking out for the friendship, and if that were to go away, you would be lost.
2007-02-09 06:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling US this? you should be telling HIM. If he's your best friend then there shouldn't be any problem with telling him how you feel or don't feel. The only way that things can get sorted out is if you get things in the open and give them a chance to be sorted out. If it's meant to be between you guys, then it is. What if you guys are made for each other? You'll never know until you tell him and give it a shot. And even if you find out that it won't work between you two as more than friends, then the true colours of your real friendship will shine through...
2007-02-09 14:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by sugacaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you never HAVE to be with someone. Follow your heart is the best advice anyone can give you. I've had best friends of mine fall in love with me and it's the most difficult thing to deal with in a friendship, especially if I didn't feel the same back. Either way, I was always honest with them about my feelings. If it means you hurt him, then whatever... if you don't tell him how you truly feel, he'll get hurt in the long run.
2007-02-09 14:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you do not "have" to be with anyone, and second of all if you "think" that you "kind of" feel the same way, don't do it. In order to have a good relationship with someone you've got to know that you feel the same way. Wait it out and see, but I am telling you if you dont "know" then don't do it.
2007-02-09 14:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys need to talk it out first. Tell him to give you some time, and maybe you guys could go on some dates. If you're not feeling it, let him know. Don't wait too long before you tell him because that will be mroe difficult. Hope I Helped!
2007-02-09 14:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Yesenia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DID THE SAME THING AND IT WAS THE WORST THING EVER! dont feel obligated to love him back. he allowed himself to feel that way for you but if you felt like you had to then it really wouldnt be true would it? my friend loved me but i did decide to go with him. i knew it was wrong but i felt bad because he was always around and flirting and asking me out and he always got jealous when other guys owuld come near. hes a friend for a reason. if you did get together and it didnt work out then you would loose a good friend....the thing with love is...YOU'LL KNOW WHEN YOU ARE! you wont have to ask yahoo to tell you :D ....good luck
2007-02-09 14:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do not know talk to him about it and tell him the truth. Trying going out to dinner a few times to see what the chemistry will be like.
2007-02-09 14:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i think your best friend is the best person u could fall in love with. i think u should give him a shot because for one he will never hurt you u 2 know so much about eachother and youll never get bored i think u should
2007-02-09 14:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by lala_lollypop_tasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel the same way enjoy your life with him .It is always good to be the best of friends and then lovers .
2007-02-09 14:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you don't have to be with no one you are your own person.. next if you don't like him that's OK too just tell He'll you only like him as a friend nothing more.. he Will either take that or leave it if he wants to lose you as a friend that's his loss not yours
2007-02-09 14:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋