2007-02-09 06:23:07 · 10 answers · asked by Kay K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Huh?
2007-02-09 06:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is time to stop being so predictable. Take up a new hobby and start becoming a little mysterious to your hubby. While you are making these changes make sure your lover knows he is still desirable to you. When he notices and start asking questions make sure you tell him these changes you are undertaking are for your own self satisfaction and no one else but him gets all the benefits. Don't ask anything different of him. He will start to notice you more as you become renewed to him.
He sound like a good man. You just need to remind him of why he married you in the fist place. Just start focusing on your own goals and personal growth. I assure you he will come on-line.
TS
2007-02-09 07:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demand his attention. By this, I don't mean get up in face and start yelling at him. What I mean is simply do what it takes to get his attention. Start with yourself. Get a new hair do, some new clothes, a manicure - if you feel more confident, he's more likely to take notice. What kind of things make him happy? Does he like gifts? You could try buying him a card just to let him know you were thinking of him, cook him a nice meal with candle light, or plan a mini vacation for just the two of you.
2007-02-09 06:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make yourself unavailable to him. Guys love the chase, but tend to back right off once they have you. Be sassy, confident, and independant. Those are probably some qualities that you haven't shown since you've married him - and he'll wake up.
2007-02-09 06:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that they all change and get cold towards you~ until I met my current husband! If he's pulling away from you now don't expect him to warm back up to you and there's nothing you can do to win his affections back. See if he's willing to go to marriage counceling; if he's not then leave him!
2007-02-09 06:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he pays too much attention to u, ask him to reduce it a bit.
2007-02-09 06:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sherif S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know anything about you, but I'm willing to put in the time. Call me quick, I'm really getting backlogged with valentines coming up though!
2007-02-09 07:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'VE BEING MARRIED FOR 12 YEARS AND MINES STILL IGNORES ME LOL GET USE TO IT.... JUST FIND WAYS THAT YOU CAN GET A BIT OF HIS ATTENTION AT A TIME.. THAT IS ALL FOLKS!!!!!!!
2007-02-09 07:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just bored with you. It is nothing personal. He is just used to you being around all the time.
2007-02-09 06:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him then lol
2007-02-09 06:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋