Me and this girl use to be BEST friends. After a very bad agruement that caused her and her boyfriend to break up we stopped being friends. I truly miss her but I feel like if I become her friend again I will lose the friends I have know.
2007-02-09 06:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Once you break something, no matter what you use to stick it back together, it will not work the same. You mentioned that if you get back with your friend, you will lose your other friends. I'd say move on. Just let her live her life, you live your own, and move on. Unless you both come to a positive agreement that you want to be friends again.
2007-02-09 06:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by ОГОНЬ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ridiculous that you may lose the friends you have now if you become "her" friend again.
A good friend is hard to come by... so do what you feel is the right thing to do.
And if you don't you will regret it for a long time.
And if you do.. you will come out on top regardless of the outcome because you took initiative !
2007-02-09 14:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Develin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that kida depends on what the argument was about. But speaking in general terms, it is almost always better to have a friend than an enemy.
As for the friends you have now, true friends will respect your individuality and not tell you who and who not to be friends with. Who knows, maybe you can help your other friends see the redeeming qualities that you see in this girl.
It is always healthy to mend wounds :)
2007-02-09 14:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Drakus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are very important to me and if you were friends for a long time then its worth giving it another shot. Your other friends don't have to be friends with her unless they want to. But do be careful as to how much trust you put at first, meaning don't tell all the secrets keep some to yourself. You have to build that trust back up.
2007-02-09 14:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt you let to their break-up. Friends do come in your life and go out for many reasons. If you want try to give her a call and see where it goes. I should hope your new friends would stop being your friend if you two worked things out, we all need many friends not just one or two. Good Luck
2007-02-09 14:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by stefanibrown74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make a decision based on whether your friends will like you or not because, who knows, maybe they will leave you for their OWN reason. you cant depend on them for too much, trust me i am finding out the hard way. So do whatever you want.
2007-02-09 14:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends with her, be friends with her. If your friends don't like her, they may poke fun at you for being friends with her, but they won't want to stop being your friend. My best friend is also best friends with this guy that I absolutely hate. So I will always tease him about it, but it doesn't mean I don't want to still be his friend.
2007-02-09 14:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be carefully about being friends with her again. She could be out to hurt you--stab you in the back.
2007-02-09 14:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by sdgblueyes26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why will you lose the ones you have now if they leave because of that then they are not your real friends. all i can say is do what you think is right
2007-02-09 14:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by links305 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, it sounds like you wanna be friends again. so definatley you shuold talk to her, if you will loose the friends you have now by gaining another friend, thats there problem for loosing you! they are not your real friends if they are going to loose you for wanting to be friends with this girl!
2007-02-09 14:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋