I have been friends with this guy for over a year..nd when i felt we were getting very close i kind of stopped talking to him. He kept asking me why i stopped talking..but i never told him the reason. We kind of stopped talking then on.It almost a year since i stopped talking . He was a really nice guy but i was just too scared of getting into a relationship with him. I keep feeling very guilty all the time i wish i could talk to him. I am going out with this other guy whom i like a lot nd we are pretty serious...but sometime i think of this guy nd feel really bad. I wish i could call him, nd be friends with him again...Do you think I should call him..??
2007-02-09 05:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by c687stu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him
2007-02-09 05:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that it would be perfectly fine if you called him and became friends with him. But if you feel like it would lead to other things and you don't want that then you should probably just let it be. Sometimes the reason we fade away from some friends it is so that we can find others. But what you do is your choice. That is just what i think would be best.
2007-02-09 05:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop analizing the situation and stop causing yourself stress!
For whatever reason you decided to move on. So, move on! It's nothing to worry about.
Call him if you want, if you don't want to than don't. Do what you're comfortable with.
2007-02-09 05:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should call him. Tell him that you still want to be friends with him and thats it. Follow your gut on making decisions. Your decision to just stay friends with him might be the best one you make. Its your choice.
2007-02-09 05:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by sprintbabe_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should. Just up and ditching a friend like that is kind of a dick thing to do. Best to straighten things out.
2007-02-09 05:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by AxMan_12 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to call him and close that part of your life before you can go on.
2007-02-09 05:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's better to just leave the past alone!
2007-02-09 05:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. You would be sending mixed signals. Let him be.
2007-02-09 05:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no dont call
2007-02-09 05:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋