almost every weekend all my mom wants to do is see movies. sometimes every saturday and sunday. there are things that i want do to with her other than movies. i feel like i dont have freedom. there are weekends when i want to hang out with friends. i have a boyfriend but we're on a break for now. my birthday is coming up in a few weeks im almost 22. i want to do stuff on my own. i need to get a job. there are times when i want to say something but then there are times when im afraid of saying something. does anyone have any suggestions?
2007-02-09 05:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you need to be honest with her, tell her you would love to go to a movie, but you can't tonight because you have some things that you need to do. when she suggests a movie, say, "that's a great idea, but what if we try something new this time and do _____ "
2007-02-09 05:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by 'Lissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah , get a job, then you can offer to pay or help pay for your mom to do some other things you would like to do together. And specialy if you want to do stuff on your own.... Self sufficient is the key , don't depend on a man or parents for physical or financial independents , then you can start doing things your way...time to grow up little girl
2007-02-09 13:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by EGOman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 22? grow up and get a job and a life. You need to stand up for yourself and start acting like a young adult not a child who needs mommy.
2007-02-09 13:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds familiar...tell her you need a break from all the weekly bond weekends...let her know that you need your freedom and you want to spend sometime with your bf on the weekends! i wish you luck cause you just might need!!
2007-02-09 14:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell er ya dont wanna go to the movies with er! good luck with erythin.
2007-02-09 14:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by rebekah u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋