My friends and I went to have a dinner and one friend invited someone else. This girl spent whole night talking about herself saying things like
OH I GIVE EVERYTHING TO EVERYBODY BUT NOTHING FOR ME
OH I BOUGHT TICKETS FOR A CONCERT AND INVITED A GUY BUT HE ASKED OUT TO A FRIEND...OH MONICA, OH MONICA...YOU GIVE THEM EVERYTHING AND THEY DON'T GIVE YOU ANYTHING.
You know guys, she spent time talking about herself, her job and how good she was with everybody....an angel what would you think if you were me?
2007-02-09 05:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by C6 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Would you trust on someone who speaks nicely about herself?
2007-02-09 05:17:51 · update #1
I wouldn't worry about that so much... Everyone thinks too highly of themselves. Personally I would admire the fact that she actually has the balls to say it out loud... Who does that?
Now wait around and see all of the negative things she has to say about everyone else... By this, you'll immediately know the truth of what she said about herself.
People reflect their own fears, faults and guilt's into their judgments of those around them...
To own a mans thumbscrew is to get him talking about anyone else... not himself!
Ahem... The intent behind this question says volumes about you my dear... Seems like you would much rather spend your time talking badly about other people... Now as far as im concerned, I enjoy a person who is self confident and sure of their own state and condition... Someone like you... I would actually worry about.
Does she know you are asking this? Did you talk to her about it? Tell her how you feel? No...? I didn't think so!
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Few men know where one side ends and the other begins...
Mark Twain.
"You never know just how you look through other peoples eyes."
The butthole surfers.
and to counter your question... Would you trust someone who always went around putting themselves down?
2007-02-09 05:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I wouldn't TRUST her but from what you say she'd annoy the paint off a wall. Conversation is a two-way street, an interchange. Sounds like she just wants to tell you stuff and it's all going to be about her.
She probably has a great set of B@@Bs or something like that if you are still thinking this hard about her because her personality was killing you. So, take some advice my friend and RUN the other way as fast as you can. In time all the perky parts moves south and if you don't love her personality now, you are going to be very, very sorry in the future.
2007-02-09 13:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by TeeDawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is just trying to impress you that's all. She is meeting new people for the first time. She is painting a beautiful picture of herself. Do you think that she is going to paint herself as a deceptive, lying, backstabber the first time that you meet her?
She wants to tell you of all her accomplishments. Its almost as though she is applying for a job. She is telling you her resume'.
She is not going to say, well i lost my BF because I slept w/ her fiancee.
I wouldn't think of her as an angel. And I wouldn't let her continue to rule the conversation. Otherwise, you will find out what kind of person she is.
2007-02-09 14:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by izzitonme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very insecure and she wants people to accept her. She wants you to think highly of her because maybe she wants people to like and respect her. Was she dominant in her conversation? If she was where you couldn't get one word, then she is arrogant.
I hate people that won't give others a chance to talk. How annoying is that.
2007-02-09 13:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by TiredofIdiots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her chance to calm down some. She's obviously abjectly terrified of rejection. I'd say that if after the second or third date, she is still behaving neurotically, then disappear.
2007-02-09 13:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes insecure sounds like , ditch her now, go for someone you know is nice without being told,
2007-02-09 13:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by tinkstaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her. She has a huge ego and is self centered. Braggers are annoying.
2007-02-09 13:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem issues. Don't ask her about herself, you'll only egg her on.
2007-02-09 13:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by tabby90 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋