Is there a legitimate need to "sow wild oats"?

Question

What if you married to soon?
Divorce the only option?
What other options are there to make up for the "wild oats" if you do not want to divorce?

Answer 1

You can talk to your spouse about having an open marriage, or swinging. I myself don't like to share but you never know your spouse might want to play around too!

Answer 2

If you mean you've come to the conclusion that you don't want to be married to your wife, then divorce may be inevitable, but some people give counseling a chance first.

As for 'options', there are advice folks who specialize in ways to spice up your relationship with your spouse. Again, relationship counseling is a possible starting point.

Either way, you should include your wife on the thinking part before you make a final decision. It may be tough to do, but you're both better off in the long run by sorting things out together - even it ends in divorce.

Answer 3

There are a lot of different ways to "sow wild oats". You don't necessarily have to cheat or get divorced. Just remember, the grass is always greener!!! Do you really want to have a bunch of cheap meaningless sex with random women and leave yourself open to the possibilities of STD's and illegitimate children?
You better take a good look at your relationship and see what it is worth to you. "Sowing wild oats" is not always what it's cracked up to be!!

Answer 4

No. Sow them with your wife. If you sow them with whomever, then your creativity and drive and passion and spontanaeity and lust for your wife will be dimininshed severly. And you won't even realize it, because the "all married couples go through dry spells" excuse will be available to you and you'll wonder why you can't turn your wife on anymore. That reason being is because she is not sanctified or set apart from all the other women you sleep with when you are sowing your wild oats. So, no.

Answer 5

Discuss it with your spouse as to whether she or he wants an open marriage.

Or, you could just fantasize about another person while you are with your spouse.

Or, you could get a divorce. I think it is more mature to get a divorce when you know you are not happy rather than stay in a miserable relationship. Ask yourself why you will not divorce and weight the pros and cons. I guarantee the reason you won't divorce is because of how you feel others will view you.

Answer 6

Go down to one of the border towns in Mexico with a buddy. You won't believe the amount of oats one can sow in an evening.

Answer 7

let's just chalk this up to a pet peeve of yours. you're thinking about it way too much. sow=present tense "I'ma sow some wild oats tonight" sowed=past tense, duh simply put, girl gone wild. It just means she liked to party...you fill in the blanks. Saying "sowed some wild oats" is just a nice way to say it. Yes cliche but so what.

Answer 8

well besides what youmlisted you can eithre cheat or get your wife into a 3 way seriously you junpe in to early and are now pretty mmuch screwed you better either have an understanding wife or a good divorce atterony sorry man i'd really just cheat and hope you get away with it if this is somthing you really feel you need to do , the only way your wife would let you get away with this is if she has self esteem issues or is just a freak in the bedroom so good luck man i feel for ya

Answer 9

All you can do now is ask your wife for permission to spend time with other women. If she says no, then you better make your choice. Divorce may be your only option.

Answer 10

Yes to relieve the PRESSURE build up.