I love her and the kids so much and she says she does not love me
2007-02-09 04:41:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she's got problems. Been there, done that, and got divorced.
2007-02-09 04:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Paul BS 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In a lot of my psychology classes we talk about this...What happens is that after people get married the happiness goes down...after kids, it keeps going down. Then for some reason, when the kids move out and during retirement, the happiness goes back up. You are just having a tough time together right now. Suggest one night getting a babysitter and going on a "date" to try to bring some excitement back into the marriage. If it works, then start doing this once a week. If not, then sit down and talk to your wife and find out how she feels and what she wants to do about the relationship because if there is no love then it's not going to work out and it's only going to hurt the children if you stay together arguing all the time.
2007-02-09 04:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by mrb1017 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely because you don't display characteristics of a real man. period. can I have your wife's phone number?
Keepin it real with you...Loving her and the kids is your job as a husband. Don't expect that to make her coochy wet. There are thousands of men that don't take care of their families and they still float their wife's boat...see what I'm saying. You can't be a husband until you are a man.
2007-02-09 04:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's really hard to answer your question with so little to go on. It could be just that she isn't capable... or maybe (not accusing here) you might have done or said something that hurt her. Maybe if I had more information I could give you a little insight.
2007-02-09 04:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Alisa C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'll tell you why. Don't be crying or anything when you do because that turns a woman off. It DOES sound like you don't have honesty and openness in your marriage if you need this recommendation.
2007-02-09 04:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first my brother.. she may be just kidding in front of your kids.. or maybe you treat her in a bad way.. so treat her good and in the way she likes and you will see that she will love you more than you predict.
2007-02-09 04:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There obviously is alot going on behind the scenes in your relationship. Maybe you should try counseling.
2007-02-09 04:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by girldog66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not enough information from you to answer that question.
Has she mentioned anything specific to you in the past few months?
2007-02-09 04:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by fab 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I DON'T LOVE MY HUSBAND EITHER. TO MANY BAD MEMORIES BETWEEN US. BUT LIKE YOU HE STILL LOVES ME. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET HIM TO LET ME GO. I FEEL LIKE HES WAISTING HIS TIME ON ME AND DESERVES TO BE WITH SOME ONE WHO CAN LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS HE LOVES ME. I FEEL BAD FOR YOU.
2007-02-09 04:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by territheterribleliar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're the sort of loser who comes on the net and moans about her not loving you, when she's wanting a bit of attention.
sort it out.
2007-02-09 04:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by the_ref 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋