hi , my fiancee got a family history of cancers & tumers with her uncles and her grandpa , last summer she got so sick with headache and had an operation to remove mass over her brain , and now adays she got a Jaw abcses and she'll remove it tommorw, is there anything should i be worry about when we'll get merry ?! .. she's telling me that she's afraid that she'll make my life miserable with her disease.. but i love her ! how can we avoid this disease ?
2007-02-09 04:14:03 · 6 answers · asked by DrA7mood 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This may be the last incident she ever has....or she could suffer an entire lifetime of misery.
Whether you stay or go is totally a personal choice, and it sounds like you've already made the personal commitment to stand by her regardless of the future's uncertainties....good for you!
As for how to avoid it, that's something to discuss with her physicians. Depending on what type of condition(s) she has, there may be no avoiding, but rather control. The doctors should be able to identify what's going on with her and offer options to help ease her concerns and discomfort.
Regrettably, besides offering support there's very little if anything we here can do.
2007-02-09 04:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not have has serious problem as she does and i am so sorry you both are going through this. but my thing is i have fibromyalgia and chronic myosfacial pain syndrome and rheumatoid arthritis. and lots of more things. Right now i can't work i am doing so bad but getting to the point i thought that i would be a burden to my husband and i thought i would make his life miserable but know i know that he is just so in love with me that he just wants to help me and be there for me. I guess what i am saying if you love her you won't regret marrying her and she will realize that she doesn't need to worry about making your life miserable because you love her so much and will do anything just to be together. good luck and just let her know how much you love her that is the best thing for her right now.
2007-02-13 03:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by apriljean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll make her more miserable with your atrocious spelling and grammar.
Tell your fiancee that the choice is yours to stay and you are willing to stand by her side because you love her. Then let her know you will no longer discuss that issue. You made your choice.
2007-02-09 04:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to worry about, there's nothing you can do to change the facts... Just be sure you know ,no matter what you're going to love her unconditionally whatever may come your way
2007-02-09 04:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by double_klicks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is love her very much. Tell your fiancee that I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.........
2007-02-09 04:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant avoid it is apart of her, you will have to accept it and keep in mind she can pass this to your children good luck spuuort her she needs you to be strong
2007-02-09 05:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋