14 or younger girls and guys that r ganna have a baby?

Question

i am just wanting to know what it is like is it hard or are you excited?..and how old are you...i just want to know about young pregnacys...thanks =]

Answer 1

My fiancee had a cousin who got pregnant at 13 and had a baby at 14. Her boyfriend was 15. This was 11 years ago. 4 years ago she had her second child, another girl, and passed away shortly after. She suffered from complications from her pregnancy and her battle with Lupus. She was a great mother, regardless of her age, but I know that she didn't get to live a happy life because of her illness and her childhood being cut short.
You can always wait to have a child. You'll learn to appreciate your baby more instead of stressing out about how others perceive you and how you'll be able to give your baby a financially stable life.

Answer 2

i had my daughter at 14, im 17 now. it was very hard. i did online schooling for a year but i was too tired to get my work done so i went back to public school the next year. and that was too hard still, so finally, i just got my GED. i recommend no matter what, to anyone who is pregnant or got a girl pregnant. finish school or at the very least, get ur GED or GRE (the high school diploma equilvancy.) also another thing. DO not stay with each other just for the baby, because its best to raise a child in an enviroment that is problem free. i left the father of my child because of all the problems we had. he still sees his daughter though. and we still have little problems, but we dont have to force her to deal with those. because we keep them quiet and work them out ourselves. my daughter has a good life for this, but unfortunately, her father, (so immature) doesnt seem to understand that he should put his child in front of other things (such as parties and things) so theres a chance he will stop seeing her anymore. i was very excited before my daughter was born, it wasnt a planned thing of course, but i loved being a mother, (still do) and i was scared, but i got through it, and now shes three, and im going to have her a little sister in a few months. and that wont be easy either, but i wil get through, im planing on college next year too.

Answer 3

i'm actually 24, and just want to say i think you should wait. having a child that young would be such a strain, especially with trying to go to school at the same time! a child is a 24 hour a day job, they need you all the time! It will definately change your life, you will no longer be able to go out with your friends and just be a kid. you wil be forced to grow up and put that child's needs before your own, have to get up in the middle of the night for feeding, take care of them when they are sick, you don't sleep at all for about the first year, etc. you can't go do what you want to do, i would strongly recommend waiting!

Answer 4

first off, you should never have a baby until your 18 for your parents sake, it will mess up so many things in their life, finanically and responability wise since you are still a minor and their obligation. but once 18, i belive you are smart enough to understnad the do's and dont's. I understand everyone loves a baby... but at 14 are you willing to sacrafice everything for the rest of your life, your chances at ever wearing a bikini again, your chances of any guy ever wanting you again? i was 18 when i had my first, but my husband / then bf at the time, had a very sucessful career, and we were financially able to care for the child. we know have a second and are hoping i am with the third right now, im 22, he is 26, but realize this, i would NEVER in my right mind have kids if we were not as finaically stable. remeeber, you want to give them everything, realisticly love isnt everything, money is a great deal in raising kids.

Answer 5

I just know that its very dangerous and unhealthy for such an underdeveloped child to heve a baby. Its not exciting or cute of a good thing! If your not pregnant and your 14 or younger dont try for it. Theres is a good chance that you or your baby or both could die from complications. Wait until you are finished with school, married and with a good career. I hear puppies are really fun though! Where are your parents and why are they not monitoring your computer usage. You need a but whopping and to be grounded until you finish high school. Get a grip child!!!