is it even more the need because they ARE in a relationship or what? because i don't f----- understand. i know men and women brains are wired different and they like different things, but come on! If someone watches it just about everyday, can that be seen as a problem?
2007-02-09 03:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by Ellie akota! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont take it serious, guys are horny a lot of the time. We get more excited by the stuff than women do. In fact I dont know any women who like porn. Anyway if you dont like it tell him. Maybe he won't watch it when you are at home.
2007-02-09 03:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ow my foot hurts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there's one thing I've learned from my own experience with boyfriends and porn it's that guys and girls are VERY different in this way. To you, it's your boyfriend seeing other women in intimate situations. To him, it's a quick way to get off when he feels like it. Your boyfriend watching porn is nothing personal to you, it's nothing to do with how good you are for him or anything. Even if he decides not to get rid of his porn if he does love you he will try to make you feel more comfortable about it. If he just doesn't care then he's just being unnecessarily stubborn.
2016-05-24 01:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone watches it just about every day, yes, that does usually signal a problem. Porn can be addictive and destructive when it is consumed too much. It brings stimulation and often temporary relief, but never fulfillment or complete satisfaction. It leaves a man feeling empty afterwards. So he's left seeking more of the thrill over and over again. It's a vicious, destructive cycle.
For men, porn is often used as a substitute for the sexual stimulation that we don't always get from our significant others. Men are visual like that. When my sex life was rockin' and my wife kept herself looking hot all the time, my desire to view porn was rare. Real life was more exciting.
Sometimes, I'd watch it, just for the hec of it, but I could take it or leave it.
2007-02-09 04:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is watching it everyday it sounds like he has an addiction to it! that can cause some serious damage to a relationship! there is now way to brake him of this habit even if you give him sex everyday it is still in his brain as something he has to do. if you want to stay with him i would suggest start watching and liking it too otherwise this will eat away at you until you can't deal with it any more and leave.
2007-02-09 04:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy prefers porn to you, yup, he has a problem.... If he comes home, watches it until he crashes, and on weekends, as well as about every free minute he has, he has an addiction, hon, and you need to accept that or leave. Addicts of any kinds are not available for relationshps --- they already have one, it just isn't with you, and it will never be. Thus, whether you are discussing additions with alcohol, gambling, porn or whatever, realize that porn addiction is about not treatable.... you'd be better off with an alcoholic, and get way more attention.
2007-02-09 04:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you spent your time "everyday" doing something that wasn't nessesarily a positive way to spend that time what would it be called? How many hours a day is this continuing- Let's say that it's one hour per day- that's 7 hours/week- 365 hours/year- when divided that is 15 days worth of focus on pornoghraphy and meaningless sex.
There is a verse in the Bible that says "Whatever is pure, whatever is Holy, whatever is of good report- focus your mind on these things."
Get out of this relationship if you are not married, If you are married then you need to talk to him about this because it is obviously appalling to you.
Besides how can you compete with his immagination of what sex should be???
2007-02-09 04:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Humble Proclaimer♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not just men that watch porn - some women like it, too. and unless the viewing becomes so obsessive that it interferes with everyday life, you shouldn't worry about it.
2007-02-09 05:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by krazy4hd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they don't have a close relationship with the Lord. Porn IS an addiction, it is degrading, disrespectful, and it IS adultery.
2007-02-09 06:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES. my husband likes to watch it when he's drunk but of course he wants me involved in the situation. I honestly don't like watching it but it doesn't bug me that much (he only drinks maybe 2xs a month) so it's not that big of a deal.
2007-02-09 04:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i watch it once in a while if a friend of mine say that a chick in a porn is hot i will borro wit and watch but to watch it every day i can do it it will get boring.
2007-02-09 04:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by GRUNT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋