theres this girl who's always calling my boyfriend. if he's not home she calls me and asks me where he is, and if i ask her why she says something along the lines of "oh nothing.. i need to talk to him about something" or "its kinda personal" would you get the impression that shes trying to p*ss you off?
2007-02-09 03:18:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
he isnt cheating on me. if he really wanted to be with her, he would have chosen her over me. he doesnt call her either because he knows i dont like her, but that doesnt stop her from calling him.
2007-02-09 03:24:48 · update #1
yes, i do ask my boyfriend and he tells me. and it turns out to be somethng really stupid...like he called her emo and she got pissed. stuff like that... really stupid lol
2007-02-09 03:27:14 · update #2
She is testing your resolve.
If you allow her to get under your skin, she will win. Ignore her, like she is a bad plague. That way, your boyfriend will know he has a strong minded girlfriend. By the way, males like this.
2007-02-10 14:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say she's trying to piss you off, but she's definitely being inappropriate, and I think it's probably natural to feel what you are feeling. Intimacy in relationships involves emotional connections as well as physical (we have needs in both areas). When you confide in someone, sharing personal thoughts/feelings it creates an emotional connection. This can be some what hard to let go if the person you confide in is someone that makes you feel better and is trustworthy about it.
If your boyfriend and this girl were more aware of good relationship boundaries, they'd know that it's not healthy to share this connection while he is in a relationship with someone else.
2007-02-09 03:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you and her and the boyfriend are all friends, so it could be that she really does want to talk to him about something. Maybe she is trying to hook up with like his best friend or something. If it bothers you, then ask her why she is always calling you looking for him. Tell her that you are not his secretary and to stop calling you trying to get to him. You should also ask the boyfriend what's the deal with her calling all the time. Maybe you can get a better answer from him.
2007-02-09 03:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by mrb1017 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Question About It She Is Doing It To Piss You Off. But The Question Is Have You Talked To Your Boyfriend And Told Him About This Girl And How She Is Upsetting You. You Have To Talk To Him About This Girl I Would Be Suspicious.
2007-02-09 03:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by EMPRESS_EVIE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if she's calling for him thru you, she's not trying to keep it a secret. Ask your man about her. If you trust him, everything should be fine. You are in control of your own emotions, if you want to be pissed off, let her piss you off. If you don't then kill her with kindness. But, considering your name on here "Kaos" I'm sure you are not a stranger to drama.
2007-02-09 03:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she's either trying to stir something up or is completely clueless. Next time she calls I would just say something like: he's busy cooking my dinner right now can i take a message?
2007-02-09 03:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously have a talk with this girl. She is really disrespecting you. You need to tell her something. If she does not get the hint afte ryou have talked to her then you need to physically teach her a lesson! LOL Just kidding on that.
2007-02-09 03:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt trust her. I would call block her a** too so she cant keep calling. How did she get the phone number anyway. I would keep an eye on him too! Check his cell to see if she is calling him or he is calling her. Dont end up being the fool!
2007-02-09 03:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you believe that she is trying to piss you off..Why dont you act like you with him and yall are doing personal stuff lol
2007-02-09 03:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by CoyaBug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like she is trying really hard to tick you off and i would put astop to it...i had a girl try to do that when me and my bf had been together for about 6 months and just found out i was pregnat and i finally told her where to go and told him he better tell her too or i was leaving and then we had the phone shut off
2007-02-09 03:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by cnwhab4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋