At the end of this month I will be seperated from my wife after 8 years of marriage. My divorce is only a few month away. There is no stopping this because we have been going though the divorce process for the last 4 years. We've tried couples therapy but none of it helped. She is a Sagittarian. I thought this was a marriage that would be filled with love and happiness but it turned out to be a twisted nightmare. Now I am moving out with my son who is in Kindergarten who is the only one who keeps my spirits up.
Will I ever be able to heal myself? Will I eventually find a good woman I can love who will love me for who I am? What sign will be the best match for me, a Scorpio?
2007-02-09 02:39:07 · 21 answers · asked by IveBeenThere 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I am a Scorpio too and I feel your pain.I was married to a Sag for only a year ,although I don't regret it I am certainly glad it's over.I know it's harder for you b/c you have a son together and 8 yrs of history.Think of this as a new beginning for you ,you will find true love ,somethings are just not meant to be.You have your son concentrate on him .Please DO NOT jump into anything just because you feel lonely or think you will forget your ex.We Scorpios need time to heal ,do things that make you happy,enjoy your freedom before you know it ,You will be in love again and happier then the first time.I am know married to a Virgo he's my world we have two beautiful daughters I truly am happy.
Taurus,Virgo or Cancer women are good for you!
Good luck and stay strong my friend !
2007-02-09 04:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by selma b 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss.
And yes, you will get past this. Scorpios are the sign of resurection, therefore you should be able to more than heal yourself. Just try not to let the darkness consume you (that's a danger we face).
As for a matching woman, avoid the fire signs (aries, leo, sagitarius). Just think of what fire and water do to each other in nature. They more or less negate each other.
The air signs can be too shallow for a scorpio and can cause discord. (gemini, libra, aquarius)
Other water signs and earth signs are compatible (taurus, virgo, capricorn= earth) Cancer is usually a very good match for a scorpio
2007-02-09 02:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pisces: Pisces are nuturers and very giving loyal souls. They have this ability to make Scorpios feel very safe and loved. And it's all true too. My good friend is also a Scorpio. He's been involved with a Pisces for a good 6 years now. She's helped him get back on his feet. However it has taken time seeing as he's stereotypically hard to win over. He was hard on her but she sticks by his side.
2007-02-09 04:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pariglow03 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell someone that things will get better with time but they will. Don't try and force things. Take time to heal yourself. Enjoy your son. Keep a positive outlook and let what happens happen. Don't plan your love life around what sign someone is. I'm a Scorpio myself. We are tough. You'll do just fine.
2007-02-09 07:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by lilith663 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh no.. I'm sorry man. Scorpios are passionate. You were with the wrong person, and the wrong sign on top of that. You belong with Cancers, Pisces, Capricorns, and Virgos. I'm a Taurus... the most feminine of all the signs. Scorpios are loving, crazy people!
2007-02-09 06:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mami_Cita427 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel really sorry for the both of you
and your son
i think in time you will find the right person for you
Capricorns feel that sharing feelings is inappropriate a lot of the time. Because Scorpio have similar demeanors, they have a great respect for each other's personal space - giving each other room to process things on Scorpio's own terms.
good luck i wish you all the best
2007-02-10 04:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by misspa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancer and Pisces! These are the two best signs for Scorpio. Your life will definitely get better. Soon as you forgive your marriage for not working out and get on with your life. As long as you have that great little boy you will be fine!
2007-02-09 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by kris10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awe that makes me sad. I'm a sag and my husband is a Scorpio too. We are happy now and have had our shares of ups and downs. I hope that things end up working out for the two of you and I dont know what kind of problems you are having but it isnt impossible to make it work.
2007-02-09 03:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe astrology has any bearing on a person's life.
And even if it does, you sound like you still trust in it a little too much. Forget signs, and expand your horizons a little more. Date whatever looks attractive.
I can't determine the outcome of your life, but I can tell you that the more options you allow, the better chances you have of success.
2007-02-09 02:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We do have it rough.
I just kept "driving women away'.
I am lucky to have finally found a woman who will put up with me. I have "stung" her boys repeatedly, only to be "Trampled on" by her oldest boy 14.
I like to let him think he has won...
It is working for now...
Good luck with it, I think you will find a good woman, just give yourself time to heal.
Put your boy first in all things, and just take a break, so you can heal.
Then go out and do your thing.
You know "Scorpios" are pretty much..."Irresistable", so hey...No worries.
Lets see, compatability...
Hmmm
Find another scorpio.
One of two things will happen, you will either kill oneanother, or totally be "inseperable". be careful.
DJ
2007-02-09 06:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by gemseeker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋