coward to answer the phone and confront me. I found out he lied to me and found out little by little the truth about all his lies. Today, I found out the worst one. I called him and his voice mail answered so I left him a message that his act was up and I found out the truth about him and what he is all about. Well, I got an email, telling me he filed a harassment report against me to my city police dept. He lives in NY. I live in another state. First may he be lieing? Can he file a complaint with my police dept. Shouldnt he have to file one in his own city?Also, he said he called it in..I dodon't you have to file a complaint in person? I cant believe this coward has sunk this low. I know you must be saying let it go, but he put me thru much mental abuse that I cant do
2007-02-09 02:36:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I understand, but yes, ironically I had to seek therapy, everythingis on record for what he did to me, my family and friends witnessed what i went through. This man completely manipulated me in every sense of the word. First with him saying he would kill himseslf everyday and that he needed my help and that if I contacted the police he would go thru with it. Only for him to lie to me and tell me got a one nigth stand pregnant before we met, then after helping him to leave me. Not only that I found out more things that he lied to me about. Sorry, but all the suicide threats he made me beieive and worry about came rushing back. And I feel I have a right to know who I have been really dealing with, and come to find out he did do this to someone else, she called the police and he told his them she was upset over a breakup. but now I am the stalker????I am the crazy one??? Where is the justice and how can someone do this to another innocent human being??I am very over him but not what hedid
2007-02-09 02:38:07 · update #1
You definitely have to stop calling him, because you never know this one time he may be telling the truth. But, yes you would have to file the complaint in person because it has to be signed and you have to go before a judge to see if they deem it necessary. Then you have to get served the papers. I know that the pain he caused you will never completely go away but you must move on and try to forget. Your health and sanity is more important than him, because by you letting it consume your life he will continue to win again and again. Counseling is a good thing, continue going until you can actually go one day without him being in your thoughts. Just remember love yourself and keep on living.
2007-02-09 02:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Feline05 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why he's your ex. I can also understand your anger. You always find out the real truth after the breakup.
Don't bother trying to "catch him" anymore. All it's going to do is make YOU aggravated. Use that info to further confirm the wise decision you made dumping him.....and find a better guy....
P.S. don't tell the new guy about what a jerk the ex was either.....you'll just look like you still want him..or just like to start problems
2007-02-09 02:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by phillyvic 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he can call in a complaint to your city. Afterall, that is where the alleged incident is occuring from. Just let it go. He is your ex. That's it. Let it go. Forget the lies. They may hurt you but it's done...it's over with. That's why he's your EX. Move on.
And by the way, I checked and saw that you have asked numerous questions regarding your ex and general questions related to former relationships and asking advice on this type of stuff. You are soooo not over him. Just move on. You're going crazy over this stuff.
2007-02-09 02:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by casey_leftwich 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're calling him about lies he's said, then you aren't over him as you claim. What difference does it make what he says? You need to let it go. And yes, if you continue to call and confront him, you can be reported for harassment or stalking.
2007-02-09 02:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by kathy059 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you left proof of harassing by leaving messages and also if he has caller ID your number can be shown and how many times you called ... he can file charges in his state . you might be in for a bit of trouble Stop calling him... he is telling you the truth this time !!!
2007-02-09 02:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be glad to be rid of him. Stay away, and keep working to heal yourself.
I have been mistreated by a loved one too. It stinks. I resisted the temptation to tell her off. Living well is the best revenge.
Good luck.
2007-02-09 02:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is your EX. Maybe you should just leave him the fk alone and move on with your life. Obviously he has.
I hope you wise up before you get put in jail or the crap beat out of you.
If I were him, I would get a restraining order against your crazy azz.
2007-02-09 02:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have to agree with the drama queen statement. Just let it go already and move on with your life.
2007-02-09 02:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by dennisjohns23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he was so bad, why are YOU still calling him. Stop stalking and move on.
PS. he isnt lying, you are harrassing him.
2007-02-09 02:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to check yourself in, you really need serious help. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-09 02:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋