2007-02-09 02:23:30 · 20 answers · asked by Csapo A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she's not a prankster then shes sad ...First Send her flowers & a letter saying for whatever I did I do apologize. Then ask what you did & how this can be resolved between us & send her more flowers or roses ! Give her space at a motel. (expect one or two weeks) Keep doing this and convince someone she trusts to talk to her. Apparently the husband has done something to upset her extremely & this may be high indication shes sick of him.
But don't give up and keep communicating by writing & flowers and convince someone to talk to her for you as a mediator.
If your wondering about belongings: Also get a lawyer if she gives no response in two week as she could want a divorce. If she does then hire a lawyer to petition the personal property be returned somehow.
2007-02-09 02:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dane Aqua 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The husband should break the door open. It's his own house, so it's not illegal to do so. He should then calmly inform his wife that if she does it again, he will do the same thing again, and that she needs to handle matters between them in a mature way. Finally, he should call a locksmith to repair what he broke, and then give his wife a key to this even-newer lock, saying, "Here is your copy. Apparently, when you changed the locks, you forgot to do me this courtesy."
2007-02-09 10:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the background of the situation. And probably what state you live in but, the husband should hire an attorney, file for divorce, get the proper paperwork listing what personal property is in her possession that belongs to him, take the police with him and they will allow him to retrieve what is on the list. I must say again FILE FOR DIVORCE, let her go. When a woman get's to the point of changing the locks on the house, she has ALREADY changed the key to her heart as well.
2007-02-09 10:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by dpwheels86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is she keeping the husband out? Is he abusive? Does he have his name on the house? Sell the house and get his share.
2007-02-09 10:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you say "the" wife, and "the" husband. Which sorta gives me the feeling that this has nothing to do with YOU, and if that's the case. YOU do nothing, and be glad you still can get in your house!
2007-02-09 10:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is your wife you are speaking of, you get some cash out of the bank and spend the night in a hotel trying to figure out what you did. Give her some time to cool off before comfronting her and see what she says.
2007-02-09 10:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move out. change them again. call a lock smith. wait till she gets home to let you in. hang out at you friends house until she gets home. put a lock on the door to the bedroom and keep her out.
2007-02-09 10:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go get the cops because she is keeping you from what is yours. My guess is the b i t c h is in the house watching soaps, eating bon bons and living off your dime. Do your kids look like the mailman?
2007-02-09 10:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by You cant handle the truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has she cahnged the locks to keep you out in the first place? What have you done to her? My suggestion is find another place to live.
2007-02-09 10:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get back in. She can't legally lock you out, especially if your name is on the lease/deed.
2007-02-09 10:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋