im an aquarian,hes a cancerian.
i can say hes a one rate lower than perfect.
very loving,tall,handsome,very nice guy,thoughtfull,after 5 yrs of relationship i cannot find any bad habits and any bad attitude.
if i will choose a man to be with for the rest ofmy life,thats him for sure.
but it seems not enough to me,hes doing everything to keep the relation working and healthy.
im not attracted to any guys or anything.
i hate myself being me,
i just want to have some space for a while to breath but i just cant hurt his feelings and
how to tell him that i need a space for sometime?
will he understand me?
is there anybody will understand my situation or
its just easy to tell that im a biatch?
2007-02-09 01:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by oo00dawn00oo 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
considering that im not pretty at all and people just wonder how he likes me?
2007-02-09 01:52:51 · update #1
i think i need to stop accapting answers,im happy with your both advise.
i really love the guy but at the same time i want to be alone.
i know its not easy to find a man like him,
but at the same time i feel like hes too good to me and sometimes i feel bored.
2007-02-09 02:38:39 · update #2
Approuch him and sit him down and explain that right now in your life you need some time for yourself and to yourself. you say hes a very nice guy, im sure he'll be at least some what understanding. let him know this isn't about him but yourself, and that your sorry if your being selfish but you can't just keep going on without time for yourself. let him also know that your not trying to be with other people its legitmently just for you to better yourself. and tell him you love him and are grateful to have him. (thats only if you feel that way, im assuming after 5 years you love and appreciate him.)
2007-02-09 02:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard for your Cancer guy to understand that you need some "you" time. It sounds like you guys have built a secure relationship, and he's comfortable. Security and comfort are top priorities for Cancers.
It sounds like you love him. You're not a btch, but you're scared and are feeling trapped. (maybe, what do I know)
Take that time off, but don't just say "I need some time", and go. A Cancer will hear "REJECTION!!" and shut down. Let him know how you feel. We thrive on emotions.
Good luck!
2007-02-09 04:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by fyxe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need quality time. tell him that. as a fellow aquarian we don't like to be smothered. (i am surprise you get along with a cancer) they are kind of cheap to me. i prefer aquarian guys or sag.now are you sure you are not looking for a new guy? i mean make sure you be true to yourself and him.
2007-02-09 02:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by sunshinesmoothoperator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋