Why????!!!!!! Why???!!!!!!!! is this so called life is truly unfair for someone like me.I'm naive,nerd,jolly soon to be 18 teenage girl.My mum always hurt me physically and said that I'm got only book worm intelligence.She didn't appreciate anything about what I've done since gradeschool until now in College.I'm also being compared to my former not real girl friends who said to be more intellligent than me about everything else.Sorry if my grammar are wrong,but I can't help it anymore but to express everything here.i'm getting more depressed and forlon everyday..Help....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need someone who will trully undertand what I taoatlly feel without judging me....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What should I do now.....????Almost everyone tease and said that I'm so horrible ,dumb....except few real friends.
2007-02-09 01:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be honest you should consider yourself lucky to have a few real friends because 2 real friends are worth 50 fake 2 faced ones. A very good friend of mine once told me hunni theres only you that can change your life. If your not happy ask yourself what the problem is and do something about it. maybe you could try talking to your mother and explaining to her that she has hurt you if not distance yourself from her. Perhaps you could go and see you GP and he may refer you for some councilling. sometimes it can feel like its all going wrong but take a step back and look at things and you will probably find they aren't so bad.
2007-02-09 01:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really depressed. I say first you need to get rid of all the negative people in your life. And since you are in college see about moving on campus if your mom is physically abusive to you. Then most important you need to seek professional help from a counselor, phychologist,etc.. It doesnt mean you're crazy to need to talk to a professional, it means you're sane enough to know there'sn a problem you cant handle by yourself. You have self esteem issues and you need to learn how to love yourself and appreciate all the things you have to offer. Maybe start talking to those few real friends more. But always know that you have got to think more of yourself, and know that you are not horrible or dumb. You think good things of youself and others will have no choice but to do the same. Hold your head high and you wont even see those trying to bring you down.
2007-02-09 01:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by sisimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are having an emotional breakdown and you need help fast. Ring a crisis help line so you have a warm human voice responding to you. The people who respond have numbers and information that will guide you in the right direction. I understand feeling the way you do, that it might feel like its to hard, to do even that but believe me you need to make yourself a priority in your own life. Being intelligent is no crime even book intelligence. {Only to the uneducated.} As for those around you Those who judge don't count and those who count don't judge. Surround yourself with those friends who you believe truly care for you. I send you loving caring thought's to help you through.
DONT LISTEN TO THE PEOPLE WHO SAY YOUR MUM DOES IT BECAUSE SHE LOVES YOU. LOVING MOTHERS DO NOT ABUSE THERE CHILDREN.
2007-02-09 01:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a tragic movie, like lease or another movie that has rather rather unhappy areas in it. Or a drama, like intense Crimes, the place there is a lot of heartfelt discomfort happening. That'll make you cry
2016-11-02 23:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by bonanno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about your mum. Dont let it get to you. Most likely when she was your age she was not as smart and maybe you annoyed her one day as kids do! And she lashed out to hurt you.
Just stick with your real friends- forget the ones who make you feel bad and be nice to your Mum. She is probably stressed out. I f you continue to abide by her rules and be pleasant and loving towards her, she will change and show you some appreciation and love.
She probably loves you lots and lots but is just not showing it.
2007-02-09 01:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by jupiter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people only teas other people because thay want to be them just look at the sorse and relize that they proble are't happy in there own life so the have to bring others down to make them happy sad realy whatch them and you will see be happy you are doing what you want and no one can take that from you
2007-02-09 01:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by gerry b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl until u stand up for urself nothin is goin to work.........
the first things is STOP THINKING THAT U R INFERIOR TO OTHERS..........you hav some qualities at which u r genuis.......
next start having some attitude.........if ppl r saying u r dumb then beleive that THEY R DUMB coz they dnt understand the hidden qualities in u........let them get lost if they cant understand u........
YOU ARE WHAT U R........BE PROUD ABT IT........
n for ppl who tease u.........the day u start telling them dat their words dnt make any difference onto u they will stop saying those things..........
YOU JUST HAV TO BE CONFIDENT IN WHAT U R.........
YOU ARE SPECIAL IN YOUR OWN WAY...........atleast u r not those girls who put tons of make ups n tend to be what they r not........
sorry for my big lectures but just put a beleive in urself
2007-02-09 01:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by crazyash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need professional help,especially if u r abused..talk to sm1 ur close n comfortable to..try to learn to be confident n not let ppl's words affect u..good luck
2007-02-09 01:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by tas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your college's counseling department. Seek professional help. I know it's cold, but if you were abused, you need to get some counseling.
2007-02-09 01:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by gg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them we all cant be the same and dont mind them but just be freinds with those who accept you as you are.
2007-02-09 01:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋