Why aren't women generally as filthy minded as men?

Question

wouldn't it be brilliant if women where as game for a bit of naughtiness as men?

i know not all women are on the slightly boring side, infact the adventurous girls are way better at it than the boys, but why is it so many women dont realise guys like a little filth from time to time, is it confidence? disgust? what?

to those of you who haven't got it at all, read between the lines, i dont expect to just be in the company of a girl i've just met and for her to get her t*ts out and scream obscenities, are you crazy for christ sake.

i mean when you go back home after a night out or somethin, the majority of the time its up to the guy to spice things up a bit, alot of girls however dirty they might be when they're talkin with their pals get really nervous and its off-putting. why not just be a bit frisky and go for it, i love when girls are a bit naughty, thats not slutish in the slightest. (if slutish is a word)

Answer 1

Most women think they are as dirty minded as men, but they don't realise just how sick and depraved we really are

Answer 2

Do you hang out among a bunch of librarians? Little old ladies?
Maybe the women around you just don't give up every little thought they have because they are in "mixed company" - which isn't a bad thing...it's called tact.
I can say, for myself, that I would NEVER let a man know what I am thinking if it's naughty (except for my husband) - but I have a thing about keeping a good reputation, and am also married. To each his own, and some are just more open than others about what they are thinking.
Just because something is left unsaid doesn't mean there isn't a dirty little thought running through their brain. ;)

Answer 3

I am sure we have all hosted "nasty " thoughts before, female and male. I think that the lustful spirit is not too much concerned it you are a woman or a man. it is just looking for a body to operate out of. It is getting your mind under control that is key, and you cannot do that with the natural mind. It is sinful in nature and will be open to influence from all spirts of darkness and fleshy pleasure. When you are operating in the mind of Christ you do not have to go to imagination, you just have to wait and the Lord will lead you to the real place you are suppose to be in Body, Mind and Spirit. It is pretty normal in the natural, male or female to express things in a lustful way. It is as much about learning by expression as it is actual experience. It also make the person feel like they are cool or something. Cool is lethal, and Hip is terminal. My wife calls it all "locker room talk", and we have had several children, male and female that were involved in sports and cheerleading.

Answer 4

I think a lot of women are ashamed to be a bit filthy, because of the stigma attached i.e slag, s lut, tart etc... Also there is a danger of attracting the wrong kind of men if a girl is openly dirty as you suggest
I am a little minx with my husband, and think it is healthy in a good solid relationship, and safer too. Just my opinion though.

Answer 5

I don't think women aren't as "filthy minded" as all. Being a Man i just realize my friends who are so called "men" just can't handle a women with a bit of character as they see it a distraction from there "man hood". Men typically want absolute control and can't stand the idea of a sexually independant lady because they automatically assume that means cheater, **** or whatever other dirty word you want to impose.

If your a man who is man enough, women who are as "filthy minded" as you can handle will be all over you.

Respect women for there full potential and believe me buddy, they will give you everything they got.

Be a real man and you will get a real woman :)

Answer 6

Most of us have dirty minds. The problem is other people seeing us doing dirty things. For most of us, we want to do those things, but don't know how the other party feels about it and don't know how to bring the subject up without embarrassing ourselves. Yes I want to do it up against the car in a dark parking lot, but what if someone sees? Yes I would love to .... with my husband, but will he think I'm a freak and laugh? Women who don't have a partner that is very open with what he wants, tend to hold back and not say anything. Maybe you should talk to her.

Answer 7

You obviously don't know women very well. If you were privy to real experiences from the changing rooms, girlie nights, female only depts you might well be shocked. The gentle sex are just not as crude about it and do not seem to feel they have to brag and exaggerate their experiences. Yes, they are just as rude and filthy but play the game against us men much better. They may pretend to be coy but boy o boy they usually are not. Listen, learn and then have fun.

Answer 8

I not sure, if it would be brilliant! after 3 nights of passion, i find myself hiding in the wardrobe.
What do you mean by filthy, like getting a girl to take a crap, on a glass table why you lie underneath?

Answer 9

If you knew anything about women you wouldn't be asking this question! Women can be just as (and sometimes more) filthy minded than men! The difference is that we are not quite so open about it!

Answer 10

Most women are but they save it for their husband.
As most comments and naughtiness is aimed at demeaning
women with them being the butt of the joke is it any wonder
they hold back. Its the old - will he respect me in the morning
scenerio.