guys a big thank u for ur feedback yestday,on my q.below.but am still in confusion as he might think i am being a pest, or have nothing better to do,true, i could not express myself, as i myself wasnt sure of my feelings, we only met a couple of times, he might be married or engaged with this friend he mentioned!i wish, i only had one chance to say, how much i liked him, and that he is perfect! :O( what do i do, its that feeling of ridicule and rejection that am scared of,'i dont care a damn!'
met this guy, 2 yrs ago, didnt fancy him initially, but gradually he grew on me, but somehow, he lost interest :O( lost touch for a long time, upon questioning, he said, he'd gotten closer to a friend. i have tried very hard, met many people but, cant get him out of my thoughts..do i have any hope. i know he did fancy me..dont know what went wrong! ihave no contact with him for a long time, his bday is due soon, should i just write to wish him? i know i will look silly..is it worth it? pls hel
2007-02-09 00:57:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What have you got to lose?! Send him a birthday greeting tell him that you were thinking a lot about him lately and wondered how he is. Ask what is going on in his life. Mention where your working now, living etc and that your single. That gives him an opening and lets him know your available and thinking of him and puts the ball in his court. Life is short and we need to take some chances and try to find happiness as long as it dosn't hurt someone else. Good Luck
2007-02-09 10:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a card leave a return address on it or send an email. If he doesn't respond just leave him alone and move on with you're life.
2007-02-14 16:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he don't want you leave him along
2007-02-13 16:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋