2007-02-09 00:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by tiger 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i don't think that there is right or wrong about it... if u are bi then u are bi.. you don't have to be gay or straight...
2007-02-09 00:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by nyxs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. A homophobic society likes to categorise people according to whether they are attracted to their own gender - and therefore labelling them as gay (or a derogatory term if homophobia is involved). Being 100% straight is considered "the norm" in an intolerant society.
Bisexuals don't fall into either category, and yet they can still do what homophobics consider "normal" and yet they seem "abnormal". This causes great difficulty in the mind of a homophobe who likes things to be simple, and they usually respond by labelling bisexuals as "one of them" even though they're not.
Some militant homosexuals fear bisexuals for their ability to have a "straight relationship" - therefore having the "same privileges as the enemy" (i.e. heterosexuals) or the ability to "hide in the territory of the enemy".
In reality, bisexuals are completely different from both heterosexuals and homosexuals. Bisexuals aren't gay and they're not straight. In addition, they cannot deny who they are - or any aspect of their attractions. They need the acceptance of both communities, and need to be understood better.
2007-02-09 11:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just attracted to the same sex and some are just attracted to the opposite sex. AND some are attracted to both.
I have never been attracted to a woman and have always been attracted to men. That makes me gay. But I am can not make anyone attracted some someone they are not attracted to.
Be happy with who you are and who you are attracted to.
2007-02-09 12:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by mdbshop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to live your life by someone elses standards. If you want to be bi, be bi. Who gives a damn what anybody thinks? You are the only one that can decide what makes you happy.
2007-02-09 09:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong or right do not apply to something like this...do whatever you want, get the best of both worlds I guess!! Have fun!!
2007-02-09 08:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by plferia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bi
but that doesent matter.
Well, i have contemplated weather there is any real true bisexuals..
I mean iv heard so much diff. stuff and people who WERE bisexual and not anymore. (thats a load of donkey sh*t)
AND i just say "WHO CARES!"
im not judged by them for being gay why would i judge someone for being bisexual?
2007-02-09 08:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not wrong. live your life like you want to
2007-02-09 09:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by JOHN F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all illicit sex leads to frustration and anger and fall out eventually, whatever flavour you choose. The fact is that it does not satisfy. there is some enjoyment to start with then familiarity breeds contempt every time. The truth is bitter but its still the truth. I try to answer honestly, peace.
2007-02-09 08:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Humble Bee 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Do what fells right to you. If your attracted to somebody and they end up liking you to go with it.
2007-02-09 09:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "Bi"...and be whatever you feel comfortable being. You have only YOU to answer to!
2007-02-09 08:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by ^..^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋