ok my boyfriend and i have a good relationship but there is NO communication between us(if you want more details look for my last question) well there is a guy in my 7th period class who ive been told he likes me alot and ive been told we would make a great couple and he is an amazing guy the only problems is my boyfriend and one of my friends its her ex she approves of me and him but she dont want us to date she said he has a temper but ive never known him to be mean or have a temper what should i do
2007-02-09 00:07:15 · 7 answers · asked by uc_bandgeek 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO communication? weird. how come the two of you end up together? lolx.
i've been in a long-distance relationship. we have a constant communication and yet we broke up. it's just hard that you're too far from the person you love. you spend more time with your friends and meet new people than him.
i can see that you're still not yet decided on what you really feel. you gotta think about this a thousand times. perhaps a million times. maybe you just feel that way for this guy in your 7th class because you're not seeing your bf or that he said that he likes you or you see him more often. so many maybes.
if you're not totally in love with that guy yet, keep distance first. find out if you'll miss him like hell. that you'll miss him not only as someone you spend several hours everyday but more than that.
about what his ex told you, that he's temperemental, it's up to you to find out. oh well, all of us have bad attitude/bad side. nobody's perfect. if love him, you'll accept him.
but for now, the best thing that you can do is THINK. think before you make any decision.
2007-02-09 01:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by poochini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no communication between you and your boyfriend, that must mean the only truly good thing about the relationship is that you both like the physical side of things. This is BAD!
Relationships should never just be based on making out (or whatever you two do together); because what makes relationships last is that you can tell each other anything and everything and still stay strong, you trust each other, can make each other laugh, and are completely honest and open. You should be able to share your secrets, thoughts and dreams. If you can't do any of these, the relationship is weak and one, if not both, of you will get hurt when it ends.
Anyway, you need to think about how YOU feel about the guy in 7th period. It doesn't matter if he likes you a lot. It doesn't matter if people think you look good together. What matters is if you have a strong friendship with this boy and if you could picture you and him being together, that's when there's something more to start thinking about.
As for your friend, she and him are broken up. I'm 14 and I don't believe in the "no dating friend's exes" rule. If you're broken up, you're broken up - it's free game. How can she approve of you and him if she's obviously not over him (if she was over him, she wouldn't care if you dated him)? So really, your friend could still be crushing on him, she could be jealous that you're with him, she could have baggage from their relationship... it could be a number of things. Though it sounds like she might still be into him, so steer clear of a relationship with her ex for now, and work on sorting things out communication-wise with your current boy.
Good luck!
2007-02-09 09:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously can't really follow this question... I would say stay with your boyfriend unless your communcation is that bad. If it is break up with him and take it slow with the guy from 7th period. But I would still watch cause of the ex with the temper cause that could turn out badly... Good luck!
2007-02-09 04:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good relationships are baed on HONESTY and COMMUNICATION, both of which you are lacking in your current relationship. So you definitely have to tell your bf either way, no matter your decision. It is only fair.
And the ex sounds jealous. Is that why they broke up? Or did she not mention this before untill now?
2007-02-09 04:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes guys are different with other girls maybe if he really likes you he'll change and wont act the same with u as he did with her
2007-02-09 00:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop seeing one of them. It's not fair.You know what I mean.
2007-02-09 00:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to ur heart. but advice is to get to now him better then decide
2007-02-09 00:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Sexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋