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i've been knowing a girl for quite some time, meeting by coincidence or in groups of friends. we met only aroung 6-7 times.
her friend told me she had a boyfriend. but i didn't care...

last week i invited her for a date to the cinema, then we went to pub for a dirnk. that day i gave her a rose(she liked it and smell the rose)then i told her that i like her. she was shy and silent and didn't say anything. but that day she was happy, we had nice time together. just she didn't say anything.

a day later while having a conversation with her friend she told me again that her friend has a boyfriend and told me' dont be sad'. i didn't say anything...

what does all this mean??? the girl herself didn't tell me if she has a boyfriend... so what's happening?

2007-02-09 00:05:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

17 answers

She sounds like a nice girl who didn't want to embarrass you or hurt your feelings by telling you she's involved with someone. You need to move on and find a girl of your own.

2007-02-09 00:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 1 0

It's extremely flattering that someone likes you as much as you seem to like her. When you have a situation like that it's hard for a woman ( I know from experience) to say "Look, you're nice, but I'm seeing someone". She probably didn't want to say anything because it may hurt your feelings or she didn't want to cause any awkwardness. She may have just wanted the type of attention you were giving her. Time will tell if she wants you or not. No matter what her friend says, wait on her. And if you really wanna know, ask again, but don't let her get out of it this time. Good luck.

2007-02-09 00:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 1 0

Well if she really does have a boyfriend - and she isnt revealing that to you (does she think you already know?)
She doesnt seem to be a very honest or trustworthy girl - I'd make a run for it and find someone better!
My first thoughts is that she is playing you (did you pay for everything on the date??) she might be taking advantage and just taking whatever she can get, like the free drinks. Try asking her out and getting her to pay if you paid last time - if she isnt willing to share costs she is def playing you :)
Anyways, if i met someone and they were already in a relationship I certainly wouldnt go on a date with them - theres not usually a happy ending in situations like that.

2007-02-09 00:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by xxangel_allyssaxx 2 · 0 1

I think the girl that you like is flattered that u like her but doesnt want to lead you on nor crush your spirit. Her friend is telling you that she has a boyfrind to make it known without the girl being put in an wierd sitution - its almost like the girl doesnt want to pressume that u have the hots foe her and embarrass herself by proclaiming that she has a boyfrind. It just simplifies things and you two can keep hanging out as friends.

2007-02-09 00:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by pinkchampagne 3 · 1 0

Sounds as if she likes you but cant make up her mind what to do.Maybe she is in a situation that she cannot get out of for some reason. Maybe she is young and insecure and has been with the other guy for a long time and finds it difficult to break off with him.

2007-02-09 00:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Well you gave her the rose and told her you liked her and she did not respond I think that was answer enough. She obviously just likes you as a friend.

2007-02-09 00:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Dee 4 · 1 0

Think she probably has a bloke, thought she would see what you were like, didn't fancy you much had an ok time, no harm done. She is playing the field lovey. Go out and date someone else.

2007-02-09 01:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by treacle0511 2 · 0 1

she prob wants to be friends or she likes u more than her boyfriend so she needs to get to know you better before she makes her moves with u but she confuses i think. she doesnt want to end it with her boyfriend (IF she has 1) or she dopesnt know what she wants just yet. probably, she jjust wants to be friends and get to knw u before she takes major steps coz she prob happy wiv b/f but then she prob likes the beat of a new guy on the scene or she just doesnt know what to do. she cant have both.

2007-02-09 00:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 1 0

Playing a game with you by the sounds of it. Not fair and not very nice. Which brings the question: How nice is she and don't you deserve better? Think about it hon. xx

2007-02-09 00:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

maybe she didn't want to hurt your feeling

you've been told twice that she's taken so don't try to push in if you like her that much wait till she breaks up with her bf and in the mean time be a friend

2007-02-09 01:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by nat 3 · 1 0

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