my friends' ex boyfriend wont stop bothering me by asking me to the dance a billion times,and asking me out and saying "you so want me" and all this stuff. i sortof like him but as a friend not anything more!
what should i do?
HELP?
2007-02-08 22:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to your friend, and see if she knows what he is doing. if she dumped him, then he is trying to make her jealous by getting her best friend to go out with him. also tell him how you feel and tell him that you just want to be mates. it allways worked for me : )
2007-02-09 00:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel. Let him know that him bothering you makes you not like him so much. Then give him time to change because maybe he does like you so much he just doesn't know how to show you properly. Beware though because if the quote above was exactly what he said it could mean something different and would be the kind of person to come on to strong and won't take no for a answer.
2007-02-09 06:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just let him know exactly how you feel and all. and if you maybe feel kinda weird cause its your friends ex and all. but you can still go to the dance as "friends" and let him know that before hand so there wont be any weird moment there.
2007-02-09 06:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by willwork4u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get aggressive tell him "look I don't want you, and I f you keep bothering me I'm gonna get (blank boy, someone big and strong) to beat you to a pulp" It's worked for me and I didn't even really know the guy who I said would beat him up.
2007-02-09 06:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by redheads have more fun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell someone about this don't keep it to your self or just tell him to piss off, if that does not work just get some other boy and make sure that this boy is in front of and starting kissing in front of him that should work
2007-02-09 06:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Diane kavanagh K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love u just tell him 2 leve u alone and u not goin 2 lose ya best friend for a boy please love dont do it. i done it all for a boy and than when u no one thay done what u just tell him no and thats it
2007-02-09 06:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes. tell him you are not interested. if he still bugs you. start going out with another guy. that way you are COMPLETELY off limits.
2007-02-09 07:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him the question you just asked all of us!
2007-02-09 06:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tal him to back off
2007-02-09 07:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by monte c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋