coulnt he give few more months for mourning...for the sacrifices she made in the family and giving so much love ?
2007-02-08 22:30:07 · 20 answers · asked by whirlwhiz2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SOMETIMES SITUATIONS IN OUR LIFE MAKE US DO THINGS THAT WE DON WANT TO DO.I AM QUITE SURE SHE HAS LEFT BEHIND CHILDREN , FOR SAKE OF THASE CHILDREN HE GOT MARRIED,DON WORRY HE STILLF LOVES HIS LATE WIFE BUT HE HAS TO TAKE CARE OF KIDS TOO WHICH REQUIRES A WOMAN.
AND IF HE DOESNOT HAVE ANY KID THAN MAYBE HIS PARENTS MUST HAVE FORCED HIM FOR THI MARRIGE TO AVOID HIM GOING INTO DEPRESSION.
2007-02-08 22:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by bhushan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some men cannot wait that long as they get lonely and need to companion ship. Does not mean he did not love her he just is lonely and wants another woman or someone to fill that void. What he really needs i counseling to help him get past the pain of losing her and since he married so quickly and on the rebound like that i hate to say it but the marriage is pretty much doomed from the get go anyways and more then likely will end badly and not last. I dont believe he married this woman for the right reasons and he does not love her so he will end up losing her and this marriage before too long.
2007-02-08 22:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm sorry to hear the sad news as death is always painful departure but is it not good that he got re married well lets leave the time span aside look at what he will gain if he mourns all his life about his lost life? instead now he got a companion to be with when he is in trouble
well why do we get married if we don't get a companion when we need them the most so I think he made a right choice.
those people who throw stone at him will never be able to help him when he is in trouble but a wife may
2007-02-08 23:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sajan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After death, she is out of the game. He needs love and comfort, so life goes on. A few more months of mourning, serves no one any good. He is legally and morally not wrong. Even if the woman had a chance to talk on her death bed, and she really loves him, she would have requested him to marry again, and be respectable, instead of going to a professional, then it would have been an insult to her.
2007-02-08 22:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents were married 47 yrs and my dad remarried one year after she died. He started dating 2 months after she passed and I admit I was shocked. He was lonely, though, and the woman he is married to now is just as loving and wonderful as my mother. My husand and I were married 4 yrs when he died suddenly. I shocked myself when I started seeing a dear friend after 5 months of mourning. Just because a person dies doesn't mean they die in your heart. My dad still mourns my mother and I still mourn for my husband. I miss him every day. But life does go on and I know that niether one of them wanted us to be alone. So think about that.
2007-02-10 05:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not but most men take their wives deaths harder then wemon because the wemon in their lives were their loves and their stability. The one they could always turn to and its the same for wemon but its different at the same time. This happens alot; The husband doesent know any other way to move past the death of his true love. Dont blame the husband. She was his wife and im sure he new her better than anyone and she him. People have very different ways of coping and this is his.
2007-02-08 22:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he should have mourned more, however you don't know the intimate relationship between he and his late wife. Maybe they had an agreement that he could find someone new before she passed away. however if they were that happily married I don't see that.
2007-02-08 22:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the best thg is to move on. if they had a happy life then may b he is not being to cope as he depended on his partner and so is looking for solace .just let him be .Mourning for someone is not the only way to make everybody understand that he loved her
2007-02-09 14:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by ng2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you said your friend passed away and her husband got remarried 50 days later...
Its hard on everyone when someone they love die. People grieve at different times, and how long they do. Ultimately its his decision what he does, just because you feel its too soon- may not be the case for him. He may be lonely, and found someone who knew what he was going threw. Ive heard people say when their partner passes they wont want to "see" anyone else ever..but i think they need companionship. It's hard for you to see because it was your friend who died.
2007-02-09 07:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this is his own way of coping for his loss. he needs someone he can lean on and focus on someone to help him forget the loss of a loved one. i'm sure his departed wife will understand and wants him to be happy. although this is really shocking for most people but let us not be too harsh in our judgment.
2007-02-09 06:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound a bit quick.
But people deal with things in different ways, and as long as he is happy I guess that's what counts.
2007-02-08 23:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋