Really would appreciate some advice - My boyf has plans to move nearer to me which in his eyes is great - we can spend more time together all week plus he has been considering moving nearer london for time anyway. I hoped the move would be positive too but he has now said his lodger will come with him. She is an old lady & no threat to me, but I just was looking forward to this move meaning more time for 'us' as I cant relax with her being around all the time & it will be worse in a smaller house especially as she will be home a lot. The next prob is that the house he is moving too has a lot of strange behaviour. Several people have rented it from him (he has owned it 4 a while) & have reported it seems to be haunted. Whether you beleive in that or not I had nightmares after I'd visited it before & called out in my sleep I was so disturbed by it, so I cant even tollerate the thought of visiting it again let alone staying there with him. He seems to have forgotton this. What do I say?
2007-02-08 21:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just answer me this- does the old lady have money? .. she could be a valuable asset. Where there's a will there's a way!
As for ghosts, this is the 21st century. I am surprised he has "forgottten" all the trauma you allegedly experienced due to visiting this house. I can only presume he thinks ghosts are a load of rubbish, too!
The whole thing smells of money, and I do not think that any of you are short of a bob or two. But ghosts are just superstitious drivel.
2007-02-08 21:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On one hand you are saying that you want to be on your
own with him but can,t cos of the old lady. Then you're
saying you don,t want to go to the house cos you think
its' haunted!!
All you can do is tell him as it is! If you can,t bring yourself
to be open about it then I don,t think you have a very good
relationship.
2007-02-08 23:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the above. Theres no easy way to say it and there definitely wont be a right time either! If its easier just get him to read your question. It will be worse if he goes through with the move and you are unhappy.
2007-02-08 21:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by hiddenmyname 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should get your own place and let him come spend time with u there.
2007-02-08 21:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Max 77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋