The youth of today. What would you have done in this situation?

Question

My friend just came into uni today really pissed off due to two "scally" boys - "chavs" is another word; basically young people who wear hoodies and tracksuit bottoms and hang out in groups disturbing the general public. These two were sitting behind her on the bus, digging their knees into the back of her seat and pulling her hair, just taking one hair and tugging it. She did nothing about it which makes me SO mad! She said but what should I do, if I confront them and they start laying into me, maybe attacking me, no one on the bus is going to help me. This makes me even more mad! What the hell is wrong with British society where idiots like these can get away with bullying the general public just because we are too scared to stand up to them!? I know if I had been there I would have gone mental! But what would you guys have done and what can we do about these intimidating youths that can get away with such despicable behaviour?

Answer 1

For half of us the natural inclination is to be passive, like your friend. What they and the active half need to know is this. When they push against anything and spend energy thinking about how bad things are, that this actually creates more of the same to come into their lives.
For your friend, what she needs to do is called prepaving. This is a process where prior to her next bus ride is she needs to imagine exactly how she would like it to be. There is a great sequence in the film THE SECRET showing how it was done. It is available online and it is a life-changer. I also strongly recommend any material you can get which falls under the label of THE SCIENCE OF DELIBERATE CREATION by Abraham-Hicks Publications. I can vouch for this information. Cheers!

Answer 2

im just like you... i would have kicked their azz! heck it wouldnt even have to be me... if i saw someone doing that to someone else i would get pissed.

someone needs to kick their azz or else they will just keep doing this kind of thing. NO ONE needs to be above the law or respect for others.....

people like that piss me off... grrrrrr...