first of all im a girl. I have this female friend of mine whos bisexual, n im totaly fine with that, but for the past few days she's been more close to me, so how do i find out is she's in love with me, without asking her?
2007-02-08 20:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im not bisexual myself, im straight, the friend is bisexual
2007-02-08 20:55:28 · update #1
well if she knows that you're straight, she should also know that she has not chance of changing you. I don't know if you can directly find out if she's' in love' with you..certainly if she is a friend there is already a degree of love involved. Are you sure she just doesn't need a good friend more in the past few days?
2007-02-08 21:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, but play it off as a joke. When she starts getting close, just blurt out something like "Are you hitting on me" or "Are you trying to sleep with me". If she is then she might just tell you. If she's not then she might realize she's sending you signals.
I'm tempted to say leave it alone unless you really feel comfortable talking about the subject/idea, but if you are already wondering about it then it could get in the way of your friendship.
2007-02-08 20:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends, traditionally, are the best people to just ASK!!!
C'mon. Try to make it playful if you don't want to be so direct.
Example:
"You SOOO love me. I know it." And then give her a kiss on the cheek. If she gets a serious look, then you have the PERFECT opportunity to make it serious and get to the asking.
Honesty is still in style, you know?
2007-02-08 21:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other way if yer relationship is strong enough you will understand it all and not judge her. Doesnt mean ya have 2 have tha same feelings just understand. Just ask how she feels about ya and ask her 2 be honest but beware wut ya ask fer it could go either way. It works trust me #1 ingreditent 2 any relationship beit friendship or other is COMMUNICATION if ya dont have that yer screwed.
2007-02-08 21:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by wickedredneckclown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're at all uncomfortable with how she's behaving towards you you had better tell her. Never mind "does she or doesn't she love me?" your relationship is only platonic and you might just remind her of that.
2007-02-09 00:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not when your drunk......you might have regrets....play it by ear and then just ask her out right. After all you only get one answer!!! Good luck.
2007-02-08 20:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ansy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to sleep with you.. if her reaction is hell yea please.. then you know she probly loves you .. if she says no thanks or errrr maybe after a few drinks then i reckon not.
2007-02-08 20:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her drunk
2007-02-08 20:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋