I'm 19 yaers old and i really wanna be a momy i have e great boyfriend -we are going to get married as soon as i'm 21. but with my salery its not that easy and the guy he works for doesn't always pay and that is waht scares me. i would bring my baby inti this world not knowing wahts gonna happen, at this point im on the pill and will stay for as lonf as i have 2. but why do i feel this need to be a mom. and i know nothing of kids i'm the youngest of 3 and have no clue how to work with babys. i practise on my friends baby and love the felling of holding the little girl in my arms. plz tell me why i feel tis way at such a yougn age in my life. and i do sleep with this guy (my boyfriend) for a damm longtime and we do love each other
2007-02-08 20:41:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sweetie just wait. I was like that when I was 16 and about 1 year later I was pregnant. I am 19 right now. You say you all are going to get married when your 21 don't count on it. That is two years away a lot of things can happen. Just wait stay on your birth control. I love my daughter but I wouldn't have brought her into this world unless i knew she would taken care of in every single aspect and she still is. Wait til you and him get a better job and wait a few more years you are only 19. You should establish a family when you financially and emotionally stable. Please wait.
2007-02-08 21:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by wishbear3687 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the number of blatant misspellings in your question I recommend not having a baby, as if you go on welfare then the rest of us have to pay up for your irresponsible desire to be a mom. I don't foresee someone like you getting a better job, nor do I see your boyfriend climbing too high in society.
2007-02-09 04:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tuco 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way - I'm 20 but I have five years of uni and saving for a house before I can have a child. I love babies, toddlers, kids, they're beautiful and it's amazing to watch them grow and learn and discover. I want to feel how great it is to know I brought one of them into the world.
2007-02-09 04:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you make a solid foundation for your baby, and from what it sounds like, it may take awhile. You are way too young to have a baby anyways. Wait until you are 25.
2007-02-09 04:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Desert Rose 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me wait until ur married anything can happen by the time ur 21. DO you want a baby out of wedlock that bad?
2007-02-09 05:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Noor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋