i'm 15yr old and really confused.my problem is a boy.well he is really.i haven'tbeen able to understand him. we met in Oct last yr and became gud frendz. however due to some problems we had some tense moments. i was at fault andappologised to him. with a sueet smile he forgave me.at that moment he made a sp place in my heart..we again started talking, meeting eachother occasionally..i guess there was attraction frm both sides.but this didn't last 4 long.my frend(boy) again refreshed those tensed moments+he even started teasing us.he already has a GF i don't know why the hell is he after my life.he still teases us whenever he finds 2of us 2gether.b'coz of this that guy has stopped talking to me.initially he used to smile at me whenver i used to pass by but now he behaves as if i don't exist. but somewhere frm within i feel he still likes me. am i right?
2007-02-08 20:37:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
does he still like me? is my frend trying to create problems? if yes then why? what can i do to make him like me again? i like him....i think so but i feel really embarresed when v r teased since i feel i become the cause for his embarrasment 2. i'm really confused. i want those "beautiful" moments back in my life. when no one is around he talks to me v sweetly. but when his frends r around then again... please advice. it has been a month we haven't spoken to eachother. i want that same old guy back. the one who used to smile at me, the one who perhaps liked me 3 months ago......
2007-02-08 20:44:00 · update #1
i think that if when his friends are around he is mean, but when it is just you two, he is nice and sweet, then he isnt worth knowing. Im not sure if you are into it but there is a poem i would really like you to read it:
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot . . .
. . . who calls you back when you hang up on him . . .
. . . who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead . . .
. . . who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats . . .
. . . who holds your hand in front of his friends . . .
. . . who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, ". . . that's her."
i know you prolly hear this all the time, but you are young. there are alot of other guys out there probably waiting for someone like you to turn up and be a special part of his life
2007-02-08 22:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I kind of had a hard time following that narrative, but if I got it right, I think both of you are on the right track. I have a 15 year old myself and have - obviously- been one myself.
At 15, feelings come and go like the flu - unfortunate, but true. The best relationship you can build is one based on friendship - NOT likely. Protect your heart; concentrate on your (girl)friendships, your family (no matter HOW boring that seems), and other interests - girls your age are incredibly creative. Write, draw, paint, etc. WhatEVER you do - do NOT base your value on what boys think of you. They are going through the same turmoil as you, in a different way, and express it differently. Talk to your (yuck) mom and dad.
2007-02-08 20:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by diastat_nation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart it is called growing up.Young teenagers are sometimes(most times)silly.When you get older you will sit back and laugh about these moments in your life that seem to be so overwhelming to you now,and realize that people are people which basically means that people can be ridiculous.Even as adults you will see the same behavior.You will see it in co-workers friends and even family members.The one that is doing the teasing is most likely the one who has inferiority issues which means that he is insecure.Don't worry about trying to re-kindle a relationship.You are much too young to worry yourself over boys right now.Good luck and be strong.
2007-02-08 23:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound just like me...I remember that something like what you are going through now happened to me when I was fourteen years old (few years ago). Anyways, I then learned that there are so many other guys out there who are willing to be kind to you and to respect you! Trust me, he is so not worth it...this guy that I knew caused me to focus on him only, which of course brought my marks down in school. You are only a fifteen year old girl, move on! Focus on what YOU need, not what this guy wants! To me, it sounds like you have a crush on him and that you are imagining that he has a crush on you too. Let go of him, there are sooooo many other guys out there....don't worry about him! Focus on your school, family, and your true friends....as those are the keys to move on with success in the future!
2007-02-11 07:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a smart girl.just be honest with the boy. tell him how you feel. you told all of us.you didn't sound stupid you didn't sound crazy you said all the Right words now tell him.
look at it this way your cheating your self out of the chance to make things right again if you don't tell him.if things don't get to the norm then its time to move on .your 15 this is the time you need to be having fun .remember this don't ever give your whole self to any one person. if you do then theres nothing left to give your self. email me if you want.im a mom of two girls my self. best of luck my friend.
2007-02-08 23:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by chris w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need a work permit so get to your school's guidance counselors office ASAP. They may have lists of local employers that want to hire teens. It wont hurt to ask.
2016-05-24 00:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he likes you? Even if he does, it doesn't seem like a strong liking as he even avoid being frens with you without any reason and without asking you to clear up the tense and weird moments.
It simply sounds like you are in love with him and imagining that he likes you.
2007-02-08 20:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got lost somewhere near "gud" : )
Move on. Plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-02-08 20:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Desert Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got lost after the 3rd sentence
2007-02-08 22:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,
You are the only one who can solve this problem, you are the only one who knows how much you can take.
2007-02-09 06:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋