iam a teenager.i have a very close female friend of my age. she treats me like her own brother. she sits besides me, she puts her hand on my shoulder she sleep in my lap.she huges me when ever she is leaving to another place and etc...she is completely clean from her heart.she is immotionally depended on me and just treats me like her brother.whenever she is in physical contact with me i am sexually aroused.Many times i told her indirectly but its of no use. why iam getting sexually aroused with my so called sister. Am i a badguy? why iam getting these type of feelings iam confused plz help
2007-02-08 19:49:05 · 20 answers · asked by Feel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hahahaha.... ya not a bad guy. maybe you secretly fancies her. she s not even ur real sis cmon.
2007-02-08 19:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a teenager, it is natural that whenever your female friend is in physical contact with you, you are sexually aroused. This happens because of the physical changes that are taking place in you. As a young boy you feel sexually aroused. You are not a bad guy. Many other youngsters too go through such an experience. What you need is to channel the sexual energy within you. Indirect talk may not help in this case. You need to talk to your female friend frankly about this. If you are considering her as your own sister, then it is easier for you to communicate frankly with her. Love is a very powerful force. You can channel your love in many ways. Sexuality is only one expression of love. And sex has to be reserved for its right time. Why don't you and your so called sister spend some time doing some good to someone in need? Are you not free to express your love by reaching out to someone? Invent ways and means through which you can express genuine love and concern to various people.
2007-02-08 20:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Tere - educator & professor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r a teenager and it is quite normal if u have feelings for that girl.It isn't easy controling those emotions but still u can make an attempt .Plz tell ur so called sister directly that u get disturbed emotionally when she does things to arouse ur feelings and No u r not a bad guy.U r just being a guy.See if it would help thinking that she was born from ur mother's womb..good luck
2007-02-08 19:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason being because deep down in part you understand that she's not your authentic sister so it really is quite nature to have sexually feeling for someone you want and believe with is why it isn't best to be extremely close friends with the different sex except your mate.
2016-12-03 22:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so called sister is teasing the heck out of you and she knows exactly what she is doing. expecially b/c you already told her what she was doing. She just wants you to be rough with her and just take her she wants a strong man she wants you to be aggressive and firm. Do what you want to do and I bet you she will be just as turned on and go along with it. Good luck
2007-02-08 19:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her as a sister she like u as brother then it is very simple
to cntrol this feeling. there are some insist taboo &it include the avoidation of phsical closeness with ur sister after some age .
because it is basic instict of body & it attract towads opposite sex
itself . if she is ur sister u can scooled her to live like a sister & ur no a little child, if u fulfill ur duty of bro this feeling itself finished.
2007-02-08 20:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by titu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put ice in your pants. NO! just kidding. Your way normal dude.
Same thing happened to me...and she grew up to be part of our family. My best advice to you.....
Talk to your parents...or a responsible adult that you trust....they may know something about her that you don't that would explain why she trusts you so much.....Just don't rule out liking her back once you get older.
2007-02-08 19:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Experimental876 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo, you aren't a bad guy!! It's ok that you feel that way, but you may want to be more direct and honest in future- just let her know how you feel. If she's really a good friend, she'll understand. Good luck, hun! :)
2007-02-08 21:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not bad Just human, and a teenager with the opposite sex, and my guess is she knows what she is doing, and putting you both in a serious position, Don't let your teenage sex drive ruin your friendship, hang in there.
2007-02-08 19:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're male, she's female. Completely, 100% normal. Relax.
2007-02-08 19:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos she aint ur real sister...so it's normal for u to have those feelings towards her. Guys are human too ya know!
2007-02-08 19:54:58 · answer #11 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋