I have no friends? I want friends to share my feelings & problems, happiness. what can i do?

Answer 1

have u tried to make some?????????????
try. tont back out. just back yoursef and try!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Dear Nillu,

What makes you think you have no friends...I am sure you must have made some over the years, but like many of us, you must have unknowingly or they must have taken eachother for granted...

As a sloutinn stop thinking that nobody loves you or wants to be your friend. Take it for granted that everyone is ur friend and then see the magic. The problems is that when we think that no-one loves us we are not our natural selves with them, often leading to a bad impression. Just open up and meet everyone with a smile.

Look my dear even beggars have friends, so why cant you? Stop seeing what you dont have. Go and have a look around in the neighbourhood, there is someone waiting for you...Cheer up and start a new life.

Answer 3

Best thing is you can read BOOKS. Books are better friends than anybody.
You can also write your feelings or day to day activities in a dairy which makes your mind open to things.

Those who have books have none to spare !!!

If you are tending to make friendship to share your feelings, then you can goto nearby park everyday or once a week. There are plenty of people coming to the park everyday either for walk or for exercise or with their kids. You can thereby meet different people , know what things happen around,

You will have the following advantages like.

1..You get friends without having to search.
2.Learn new things from them, learn to face things by their examples.
3.You can also keep your body healthy.

Hope this helps you a bit to resolve your problem.

All the best !

Answer 4

DO NOT SHIFT THE PROBLEM ONTO EVERYONE ELSE. If you have no friends is it the people fault or yours...sometimes you can push yourself away from people but not no it. There is definately someone where you live that has the same feelings as you, probly loads of people that have no friends, so be friends with them. Also, don't be too picky when chosing friends, you don't have to be the same as them (and opposites can attract). And the WORST thing to do is put all the feelings, problems and happines in material things. Everybody loves buying things but it really doesn't make you happy forever. You've just got to find something that makes you happy...for me it was dancing which I started this year after going through similar problems to you. Don't worry, friends will come. :)

Oh and the 1st answer you received for this question is an excellent example of pushing yourself away from people. Her advice obiously didn't work for herself because its not the right answer... she sounds unhappy to me :(

Answer 5

Hi Nilu,
You are in serious problem. This world is very selfish. No one has time to listen your problems or feelings. Cause everyone in this world is full of problems.
First, be your own friend. Be positive and make yourself feel the way you want so you can make yourself proud. Be Happy. Do meditation. Increase your will power. Create positive energy layer around you (AURA) and see the results. You will find people running to you and requesting for your friendship.
Just be NILU. Just be yourself.
Good luck dear!

Answer 6

strangers are just friends you haven't met yet.

usually, to meet potential friends you need to make yourself available. that is, to get involved in the community somewhere. you could sign up for a seminar or a workshop on something that interests you and you'll meet like minded people.

there are community centres and social clubs. then there are churches where a person can fellowship and discuss the wisdom of the Holy Bible.

stay away from the bar and cabaret scene unless you're with very trustworthy friends. obviously that won't be happening for awhile as you have no friends........yeah?

PS it has been said that if you acquire but a handful of true friends in a lifetime you are luckier than most people.

Answer 7

Sorrry, but i find it hard to believe that you don't have any friends. I'm sure you have, maye you just don't notice them. Look around you, see who's always at your side. A friend doesn't have to make you laugh always, who shares homework and test answers with you always. I believe even the worst people (i'm not saying you're one of them) have friends who accept them. Or, if you really think you don't have any, you could try journal writing. I've been doing it for over a year now, and it's a good way to express you're anger or sadness without hurting anyone.

Answer 8

Hi, Nilu. Why do you worry you have no friends? First of all, you cultivate friendly feelings within you and spread it to others. But rarely we find a true friend nowadays. Friends are there to squeeze you and to exploit you. You would feel fortunate yourself if you can get a good friend like ' a friend in need is a friend indeed '. Better cultivate a habit of writing a diary and express your feelings there. Become a member of any good online journal. You may get a friend of your choice as I got one a few months ago. Good luck!!

Answer 9

I hope you are in society and not in jungle alone. You should know one thing. Nobody is perfect in the world. People with different characters are there. You should not find fault with all. Among those coming to you, you judge them with their plus and minus, make friendship with the person who is having more plus than minus. Once you make a friend you should be open to him/her. You have to help people rather than finding fault. If you spend a lot money you may get friends but it will be risk to share your feeling with them as they they may go against you when you stop spending on them. You may have only selected friends but ensure that they will with you always in happiness and sorrow. If you have lot of friends that does not mean that all are for you.

Answer 10

Join a club, get involved, get a job, go out and see people.

I think really the most important part of developing relationships (at least in the beginning) is to be the initiator. Show interest. Be the one to ask a friend out to go do something. For example, "Hey, mike - I'm going to the mall, wanna go?" And then you and Mike can bond.

It's all about getting the phone #, and using it.

There's also a book called "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - - - - A must read for anyone, no matter how many friends they have.

Just give it a try, and you'll have friends in no-time.

- j

Answer 11

Everyone should have friends to share their feelings. We feel light after sharing our problems and sorrow and also get solutions for our problems from our friends. How much we share our problems more we get lighten and relaxed. Make friends of your classmates your relatives and also can make friends on the Internet.