2007-02-08 17:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by Rainman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why should you feel guilty? Did you offend someone you are commited to? Don't feel guilty cause of these religous nuts, or your parents, or anyone else who would judge you because of it. If you did truly feel guilty, you won't do it again, lesson learned... Don't beat yourself up because other people are intolerent and stupid...
2007-02-08 18:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by eldeeder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I went through absolute h*ll. Other guys I've known didn't, so much. But we're taught by society how "wrong" same sex encounters are, and it's not uncommon to have a strong guilt reaction, and to wonder what would happen if our loved ones found out. Plus there's the "upset self-perception" piece thrown in. Really, you should talk to somebody.
2007-02-08 18:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guilt comes from religious training. Shed the religion completely and the guilt goes with it.
2007-02-08 18:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the second grade and I used to play house with my neighbor... andddd.... yeahhhh we were like "omg I'll be the husband and you be the wife" and we were both girls soooo yeah we'd so stuff... even though we didn't know exactly what we were doing at the time.
Later on, when I had THE TALK, I realized that OMG I must be a lesbian because of what happened earlier in my childhood
It really bothered me for a LONG time...... until I started talking about it with my friends.....
So, yes, it is hard afterwards.....
2007-02-08 18:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first time was odd 2 me and I will admit I went and took a long shower, but then realized, WTF, this is me, 2 hell wit wut tha world wants im gonna be me, no im not pushing it off on ppl or forcing them 2 accept it and Im not out 2 hit on everything. I felt dirty and guilty for oh the first week and then it happened again and knew that this is me, like or not this is me and Im happy now with commin 2 terms wit it.
Dont let it eat ya, be happy, not 2 mention tha fact that being bisexual opens all the doors of both sides of sex. Twice tha fun.
2007-02-08 22:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by wickedredneckclown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you feel giult? i didnt, exept the time i did a lot of stuff with 2 of my friends, but i only felt guilt cos on the same night i slept with an ex, while my boyf wasnt at the party.
2007-02-08 19:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not real hard but I think it is normal to have some. But in 3 or 4 days you will be ready for your second one, most likely.
2007-02-08 18:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guilt feelings? I knew I was missing something!
2007-02-08 18:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have any guilt feelings at all. I thought it was great. Very liberating!
2007-02-08 18:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some people it is. They think that they have crossed a line that they shouldn't have. But hey, it's not the end of the world and as long as you didn't hurt anyone....no harm done.
2007-02-08 18:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋