Womanly Observation?

Question

Woman observes circumstances in a different way. My girlfriend takes things differently then me. She points things out to me that I would not of otherwise have noticed. For example: She may say that girl looked in a certain way so she doesn’t like her and wants to fight her, or that girl say something offensive to her or somehow she see some kind of fault. Another example is that when I was at restaurant my girlfriend said that the waitresses flirt with me because they are being too friendly with me but I have not noticed it. I told her that it’s their responsibility to be hospitable and that it’s not flirting. Is this some kind of womanly observation that I don’t know about?

Answer 1

Okay, from what I understand, yes, men and women think and are made differently. Men go shopping-it's the hunt-go in. get what is needed, get out. Women-it's relational--go to the mall, take a friend, try different stores for the same item (ie: a blouse), different styles, prices, etc. Stop, have a piece of pie, coffee, talk with the friend, then go back to the one store to get the item she wants. There are times that we women "read" other women, a lot has to do with body language. As for the waitress, yes, they are to be hospitable, however, there is a limit. A lady I know told me that a waitress should treat the lady of the couple like a queen. Most of the attention on her. It helps, because it makes the lady you are with feel important (even tho she is to you), and it helps the waitress get a better tip-because the lady you are with will like the waitress and her hospitality to her enough, she would more than likely reccommend to you to give the waitress a bigger tip. I hope this helps you. Take care.

Answer 2

Like when a woman is friendly towards a guy, the guy may think the woman is easy and will sleep with him while the woman is just being friendly.

All humans have fault, and what your girlfriend observes may be what any guy can observe too. Maybe she's insecure, there are insecure men who also get jealous at guys easily too. Same goes for both sexes, so you can't say a woman gets jealous easily or bitchy, because guys do the same only we look at women more because of the stereotype

Answer 3

There are times when women may notice that someone is flirting, and the guy doesn't really notice; but that's only sometimes.

If your girlfriend is the kind of girl who wants to fight someone it isn't all that likely that her observations are "womanly observation". Its more likely she's got an attitude problem at the very least. She is an aggressive person, and you shouldn't let her attitude make you start to question your own ability to "observe" things.

Answer 4

The thing that we have to understand about men and women is that they see reality in *totally* different ways|

That is a cause of so much misunderstanding between men and women|

A good man and a good woman may be together, and each thinks that the other is doing things to hurt him or her, when that may not be the case at all|

It is just a matter that they interpret things differently|

A man may say or do something, and the woman walks off in a huff|

He says: "what did I do? What did I do?" and honestly he does not know!

Or a woman may suddenly leave his man and put him off|

Unfortunately, many men take this as rejection when that is not the case at all|

What the woman is doing there is testing the man|

When he is getting too close too fast, she will suddenly withdraw from his presence|

The thing he has to do is resume the chase, but be a little more gentle the next time|

If a woman loves her man, she wants him to get her, but she will make the chase a challenge for him|


But above all, avoid a woman who is too easy to get, or just presents herself where no effort at all is required from the man|

If you go for such a woman (either for casual sex or for marriage) you will end up in disaster|





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Answer 5

Women see the world differently to men.
In a mans mind there is some connection between what he sees and what is really happening. This connection has been missed out of the female mind and what they see is only based on hormone levels.
In case you don't know, hormones are mind altering drugs produced in female bodies at random intervals which are designed to regulate the perception of how much the male has done wrong. You can test this by deciding to bring your girl flowers on two seperate occassions. Although everything you do will be identical on one occassion your girlfriend will cry and tell you how thoughtful you are and on the other she will ask you what you are trying to hide by giving her flowers, they must be because you feel guilty about something.
Much of male science has been based on research to try to predict what way the female mind will jump next and when the jump will occur but so far it has been easier to predict earthquakes than womens moods.
The approved way of dealing with this is for the male to admit that he is wrong in all circumstances and to promise that he will try to do better in future. In reality the male can never achieve this since he is unable to predict what action will be found fault with next.
According to my wife, the problem is that males are not rational and do not understand what it is like to be a woman. All I can say is sorry and I will try to do better in future.

Answer 6

Women were created differently, we look more into the emotional while men stay focused on the logical. Its entertaining at best, and there are great aspects of each. The point is that you complement each other. Yes we observe things you dont, but you also observe things that we dont. Play up your strengths, and dont forget to listen. Im impressed you noticed this much, most men can be far more dense! lol. Live, laugh, love and enjoy!

Answer 7

....hee...so so...I mean as far as the waitress situation....i think your gf was just being jealous......but for the other part....I must agree with her. Sometimes girls just give us bad looks. And sometimes it just goes over board...specialy when drunk!...but yeah most girls do check out other girls and at times it gets out of proportion trying to pick up fights and such.....but in my case its only every now and then. I take it personal when I;m driving and some retarded girl cuts me or does something stupid. It annoys me when they don;t know how to drive!!....so yeah I understand how ur gf feels....i say it happends to every girl

well i hope my girl advice worked!!
...and don't break up with her over silly things like that okay...its just a girl thing.

-good luck!

Answer 8

Nope, your girlfriend has issues. Tell her to keep her observations in check until she can learn to stop assuming that every woman wants her man.

Answer 9

Sounds like she's a little jealous.