2007-02-08 17:03:37 · 13 answers · asked by jing v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
been with the girlfriend for 17 years, known her for 18, what's the hard part? take your time getting to know the guy, make sure that you and he are on the same wave length, don't just fall for the first pretty face and hop into bed. to build a solid relationship takes time and effort on both of your parts, when you get that worked out, the bedroom part is the fringe benefit. good luck.
2007-02-08 17:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by car dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't generalize. If you notice a pattern in your life don't blame the group, consider what role your expectations have in this pattern. The ability to keep a promise is a measure of one's personal character and integrity and has nothing to do with gender. The ability to stay in a relationship is also a personal decision independent of gender. Relationships, even the goood ones, are difficult to maintain and are require constant personal growth to keep the union fresh and fulfilling. Few people find a partner that is up for that challenge -- with them.
2007-02-09 02:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Clayton B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will say anything to get you off their back and get you on your back with your legs spread wide open.
Get it? Good.
So now smarten up and take everything with a grain of salt, basically when a guy promises you the stars sky and moon you know that you might get, like, a cracker.
So do not depend on others to make you happy, and make your own way in life.
Good Luck.
2007-02-09 01:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only males Some women as soon as they see something better financially they go for it probably the same with males. Girls look for security and guys are after younger girls with child bearing hips.Humans are never satisfied with what they've got
2007-02-09 01:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes have this problem,but i think the problem is everyone get too comfortable in a relationship.then you have those in most cases,that just can't stay faithful.Had it happen to me in every relationship,i gave them trust and they gave me the shaft.I like the ones that cheated,and/or broke up because i was too nice.lol
2007-02-09 01:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are not being fair. Women have the same problem,and I am a woman. As for why you have to really want to keep them and work at it at times.
2007-02-09 01:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the blood rushes to the wrong spots at the wrong times
2007-02-09 01:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tony S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just as hard for some women.
2007-02-09 01:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's got nothing to do with gender. It's all about an individual's makeup.
2007-02-09 01:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not that hard for many males....
Not all men cheat..
Not all women cheat..
2007-02-09 01:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋