I have a hard time wanting to live...Any advice?

Question

19 yr old girl, not in school, no friends.

Answer 1

Do you have family? friends? 19 is not to old to get back in school or to get GED.My son died at 20 and a part of me died too. He was so funny and was a friend to all.I miss him really bad and I know your parents would be the same way.Evary time I see one of his friends I wonder what he would be doing now or what he would look like.Weather he would have married or have a baby. Life is so short and I just dont understand why people want to make it even shorter.Its not to late to turn ur life around. If nothing else just do it for me. You can contact me if you want to.

Answer 2

Yes, first give a little more time. You are so young and have not had time to fall in love with yourself as an adult yet. (You will, because you are lovable. This is true and good.)

You will eventually come to realize how cool and beautiful you are, whether anyone else is telling you so or not. (You will, because you are bright and feel hunger for joy. I know this, because it is true and good.)

You will come to a mind-space where you feel that you are at the head of a wonderful journey, and that you have great power. (You will know this, because it is true and good.)

When you come to that space, others will se it in you, and they will be drawn to you as you are drawn to yourself, and to them in turn. The love of real friends and romance will find you. (This will happen, because it is the way of things in nature, and your nature is true and good.)

In the meantime, find things to do that make you feel good about yourself:
Create things that are products of your own mind (like art, music, and food) so that you can see the fruit of your own talent.
Share a little of yourself with others, because it is a part of each of us to offer something back to the world, and it will make you feel good.
Be kind and not judgemental toward yourself and others. There is no need for bad feelings. Many years of great joy are at your doorstep.

I tell you all these thing with confidence, because I am near the end of the journey that you are just beginning. I have made many mistakes, and I have taken them all in stride and always come out the better for it. I have no regrets or fear, and I will not grieve as I come closer to my journey's end. It has been a wild and wonderful ride, and yours will be, too.

I have no reason to give you false hope, and I would not show the disrespect of lying to you. I tell you all these things because I think it is a good time for you to know them, and because they are true and good.

Enjoy the ride!

Answer 3

You sound as if you may be depressed, however you should talk
to someone soon about your lack of interest to live, but as of now I hope that you overcome this feeling and know that you are valuable and needed, make a difference, volunteer at one of the places that could use your help. example united way Big Brothers/Sisters program, Mentor someone unique, Become a Literacy Advocate , Take some time to discover who you are
learn to love yourself and choose what you need in your life as a friend . ask yourself, what do you want to learn that's new?

Answer 4

Oh sweetie, you have to keep on going. I really do know that things probably suck right now for you. It's a certified part of life- in fact I believe that it's the eleventh comandment. Thou life shall totally blow- often. But not wanting to live is never the answer.

Life is beautiful dear. It's full of wonderful possibilites that you might just be missing. Have you tried meeting people? Or just doing something just because you felt like it? Do something to please yourself dear. It sounds like you need something to pick you up.

Have you tried going to people places? Though they may sound hokey, try going and meeting people at the library, or places of worship. Sit in a cafe and make sure someone notices what you're reading. Voulenteer in your community. All of these are good ways to meet people in your area.

Please dear, I know life is difficult for you right now. Everyone in the world has felt the same way and it is hard. But giving up is never the answer.

I hope this helps. : )

Answer 5

this aint advice,..its an interaction... brace your self... my 'friend sent me this.. it's relivent.. to me..and yo.. and if ya think about it..every one else too...i got to type it.. so i'm gonna make it all capitals.
ARE YA TIRED OF THOSE SISSY 'FRIENDSHIP' POEMS THAT ALWAYS SOUND GOOD, BUT NEVER ACTUALY COME CLOSE TO REALITY?
wELL, HERE'S A SERIES OF PROMISES THAT ACTUALY SPEEK OF TRUE FRIENSHIPS. yOU WILL SEE NO CUTSEY LITTLE SMILEYS ON THIS CARD - JUST THE STONE COLD TRUTH OF A GREATE FRIENDSHIP.
1. WHEN YOU ARE SAD--I WILL HELP YOU GET DRUNK AND PLOT REVENGE AGAINST THE SORRY BASTARD WHO MADE YOU SAD.
2. WHEN YOUR BLUE--i WILL TRY TO DISLODGE WHATEVER IS CHOKEING YA.
3. WHEN YOU SMILE-- I WILL KNOW YOU FINLY GOT LYED.
4. WHEN YOU ARE SCARED-- I WILL RAG ON YOU ABOUT IT EVERY CHANCE I GET.
5. WHEN YOU ARE WORRIED-- I WILL TELL YOU HORRIBLE STORIES ABOUT HOW MUCH WORSE THINGS COULD BE, UNTILL YOU QUITE WHINNING.
6. WHEN YOU ARE CONFUSED-- I WILL USE LITTLE WORDS.
7. WHEN YOU ARE SICK-- STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM ME UNTILL YOUR WELL AGAIN. I DONT WANT TO CATCH WHATEVER YOU GOT.
8. WHEN YO FALL-- I WILL POINT AND LAUGH AT YOUR CLUMSY ***.
9. THIS IS MY OATH..I PLEDGE IT TO THE END. "WHY"? YOU MAY ASK; "BECAUSE YOU ARE MY FRIEND".
FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE PEEING IN YOUR PANTS, EVERYBODY CAN SEE IT, BUT ONLY YOU CAN FEEL THE TRUE WARMTH.

SO, SEND THIS TO ALL 10 OF YOUR FRIENDS, THEN GET DEPRESSED BECAUSE YOU CAN ONLY THINK OF TWO!!!

AND DONT SEND IT BACK TO ME... I DONT WANNA HEAR IT!!}

Thats it... if you didnt get a chuckel from it..i sencerly opologize... you can emale me ... im open to that... dont let 'hope' be all ya got..get some 'full' to go along with it..LOL stonehunter

Answer 6

If your have religious beliefs, get involved in a church. If you work get involved and make friends there. If you can, go back to school to further your education and have a career that you can be proud of and you can be financially stable. Life is a precious gift and there are far more reasons to be here than not. If it is a matter of depression, seek help so that you can find happiness in yourself. Good luck.

Answer 7

The question is...why not? You seem like a nice girl and all...just try...believe me...it's easier than it sounds...haha...You can write to me if you like and maybe I can give you more advice if you specify the question...with something like " I have a hard time wanting to live because I have tried everything from making friends to so on and so forth...something like that. Just ask me...I'm no mind reader,remember...haha...I'm here...Chris

Answer 8

I think there's more to what your feeling. Do you have family problems? Why is that you don't have any friends? I don't think you're anti-social. Why are'nt you in school? You gotta be more specific to your question, and see how can we help you, ok? Why don't you state your problems so that we can help you. Untill then, I can only wish you my very best with alll my heart. Peace!

Answer 9

Make friends, even if it is online. you can tell people here anything without any of us knowing who you are.

we can give you advice, or just lend and ear.

life is worth living, if you don't like where you are, try and move.

what would your dream job be - try and do it
what makes you happiest - do it

Answer 10

it depends on you, Friends dun come to you, you have to find them... And even if you use a lighter to burn those ants on the floor, they too would run for their lives, think; even a small ant understand the principles of cherishing life, would you?