Is this to good to be true?

Question

I just came out of a 15 year marriage three months ago.She lost love and cheated although I don't think she knew what love was. I just met a women and she talks like my ex never did. She is understanding and knows what I'm going through we've only been talking on the phone and she sent me a photo and she is HOT! If we start to get physical is this a rebound? I'm starting to lose feelings for my ex but still have some. Do rebounds like this last long?

Answer 1

Yes this is a rebound thing right now i believe. Please do not do it as a rebound and slow this wayyyyy down. rebounds do not last long usually I am sad to say. you need some time to heal and get past the relationship that you just got out of and then later on try dating again. Just be friends with this lady for now. Are you divorced yet or just seperated?

Answer 2

dont feel for your ex no more
shes nothing but a big fat whore

its good you meet this other chick
to see if youll really click

who cares if its a one night stand
you need a woman -she needs a man

so go live the rest of your life
not caring bout the long lost wife

she had her chance with you
its over now your through

and no rebound will not last long
once she sees you are king kong

the wife - shell be wishing on
sorry that she done you wrong-

go out and have some fun
your starting over ! you lucky one-

Answer 3

You are having rebound feelings
because you are still reeling
from the shock of your marriage breaking up-
It would be easy to tell you to
take it easy and slow down-
but once those hormones start racing
and the little head does all of the thinking...
well we all know what happens then....LOL!!

Do whatever you're going to do-
but realize it is only a
"rebound relationship" and nothing more.

Answer 4

It could be a "rebound", then again, you might be passing up a wonderful woman. Just take it slow and don't believe everything you see or hear. Until you meet in person and have some time together, don't get your hopes up. You need time to heal.

Answer 5

I'd be careful that SHE isn't on a rebound. Keep in mind that women, at least the majority of them, are much more interested in a "long-term" - like marriage! arrangement. How old is she, any kids - find out her agenda before you suddenly "fall in love" again and MAKE certain your first commitment is completely over - as far as questioning HER understanding of love, challenge yours first - people don't just fall out of love - a lot of them are "pushed" out of it..

Answer 6

no,but take some time to assert your feelings.
if it is meant to be in this case it will still be when your done
not to mention if it was really meant to be than you would have no doubt.
the mind is a tricky thing,when its used to having something,and all of a sudden thats gone, all types of rational reasons will come up inorder for it to get that back,
so what i am trying to tell you is
more than likely its really the female companionship(you know what i mean) that you miss,you were married for 15 years give yourself some time to get used to surviving without that, so you wont be too clingy and scare off the next woman.

Answer 7

it will be whatever you make it to be. your not really going out yet so just take it one day at a time. see what develops. she's not ur ex, dont compare. everyone deals with a loss of marriage and a partner in their own way under the circumstances. peace

Answer 8

Yes, and its quite obvious that you are rebounding because you continue to make comparisons to your ex which is a clear indication that you have not moved on. It also sounds like you met this woman online please be careful, people aren't always honest.

Answer 9

You may want to ask her for multiple photos so that you can be sure it is her. Otherwise, I wouldn't trust her. She could be a big fat cow with no teeth.