we are both 32.. we have a romantic getaway planned... i have been married before he hasn't i have kids he doesn't.. he wants all that eventually I have had it..we are content and don't ask questions to often.. should i even mention it.. or leave it alone.. what we have is good..he makes me laugh and feel like a human again..i think i love him but do i tell him that..
2007-02-08 15:11:55 · 2 answers · asked by red74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he knows I ahve kids and have been married... I am honest we have never discussed anything more than that though.. just casual okay conversation..
2007-02-08 15:47:26 · update #1
You definately should have a serious talk with him about it. If he truly wants kids and you don't, you have the obligation to making that clear to him. Then at that point, he will have to decide whether or not he's willing to accept it.
It's not fair to let him fall in love with you under false pretenses if he thinks you might have more kids with him. Getting the truth out up front is the only way to deal with it.
Who knows - maybe after talking to him and seeing his viewpoint, you might have second thoughts about not wanting any more kids! {laughing}
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 18:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You defintiley should mention this to him and tell him how you feel about this and why. If you feel that you love him then tell him and tell him now. You need to tell him that you were married before and that you have kids ... Do not keep secrets from him about your life. Honesty and openess is the best policy and the best way to start a relationship. If you open up to him he may open up to you.
2007-02-08 23:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋