why would a guy lie to his girlfriend about still being a virgin at 25 and then after being married for 16 yrs she finds out he lied about that and really wasnt a virgin when they met..it doesnt bother her that he wasnt a virgin she just wonders why he lied about it
2007-02-08 15:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her feelings for him would still have been the same if she had known from the beginning that he wasnt a virgin.
2007-02-08 15:14:04 · update #1
It could be because he thought that it was something important to her.
2007-02-08 15:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He lied about it because he was scared she would not have wanted to be with him and married to him otherwise. it was wrong that he lied ot her though but it is in the past so it needs to stay there and that is that. Has she asked him why he felt he had to lie about it? Maybe he will tell her why.
2007-02-08 23:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was most likely because he wanted you to think more highly of him. It is kind of like when a man asks a woman how many men they have slept with and some tend to lie so the man doesn't think they are slutty, skanky, etc. It sounds like he had good intentions, not bad ones.
2007-02-08 23:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it was a less of a hastle that way. He wouldn't get asked a lot of details about his pass love life.
2007-02-08 23:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lied about that what else he lied to her about. THats the true question.
2007-02-08 23:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wanted to "revirginise" himself with someone new, because he wanted to have a committed relationship.
2007-02-08 23:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pristine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the person he slept with was a bad person and he wanted to forget about it. Maybe he was drunk...Why dont you ask him.
2007-02-08 23:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by angel01182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was maybe scared, didnt want to screw up another relationship... and those words just came out of his head, no idea knowing how they will affect him later in his future.
2007-02-08 23:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought if she knew he wasn't a virgin, her feeling would change.
2007-02-08 23:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Al J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought she wouldnt like him if he wasnt one.
2007-02-08 23:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋