If you want to be alone, do you feel free to say no to an invitation and make yourself your top priority? Would you despite your needs to please someone? How do you deal with it?
2007-02-08 15:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by Christine 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No, when I want to be alone I can be alone, which is good because then I can spend time getting to know myself better so that I can function better in group settings
2007-02-08 15:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been doing well at making myself a priority. Wierd that you ask this question caus eI was thinking of asking one similar.
I am in a relationship (4 years) we live in different cities and it seems this has taken an immense emtional toll on me and not my partner. So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I don't know what to do.
To answer your question I am always telling people no when I get invitations and I feel horrible about that. I know I should force myself to get out there and be social. In your case it sounds like maybe you want the ability to say no. It's really easy. Just tell whoever invites that your not feeling well. Let me warn you though. It hurts when the invitations start to become less and less because people already know your going to say no.
GL!
'-)
2007-02-08 15:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much better - it's beeb a rough winter since my mom in law got truly ill and then died. But I make time for myself, and am finally getting my business back up and running.
I've said no to a few things, I even stayed home from work when I was ready to hurt people instead of help them.
It's all getting easier and back to normal again.
2007-02-08 15:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to care about how other people feel. Let alone pleasing someone! GET REAL! I don't give a damn to whoever think they more superior or very important person. I don't have to bow head or kiss their feet to make them happy. I hate people who take themselves far more important than others.
2007-02-08 15:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, when I want to be alone I AM, the problem is, when I want to back to people , doesnt happen quickly, :) do you know what I mean?
and its ok
Try to be nice with people , so you friends don't feel left too, when maybe they need you and YOu dont want to be with them cause you want to be alone, try to find a balance.
BE with them when you think they need you, and be alone when you think you really need to, too.
take care
2007-02-08 15:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nikita . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I feel emotionally depressed I try to talk to my bf but that did not work it made it worse, I do not have anybody to talk to I just keep my emotional to my self
2007-02-08 15:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much I'm all good in that area. I just pull myself up and keep on going
2007-02-08 15:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much I like the individual and I care for them, or how biitchy I'm feeling that day. lol.
2007-02-08 15:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually just ignore everyone that gets in the way of what I want to do.
2007-02-08 15:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm doing pretty good. If I don't want to be bothered I have no problem saying no.
2007-02-08 15:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋