stuff everyone else. will i be ok? i mean i know i will but any advice?
2007-02-08 14:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just take it day by day and you'll be fine.
Good luck
2007-02-08 14:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a relationship breaks up, there is always a time of grieving for what was lost even if you were the one who broke it off. Give yourself time to adjust to the new single state and don't get in a hurry to find someone else. There's too much chance of settling for less than the best if you rush into another relationship. Of course you will be okay. It will just take some adjustment time.
2007-02-08 22:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 12 years is a lot! Why the break up?
I guess after 5 years there were no commitments to getting married. It was a waste of life! That tells me that you two were really not committed in that area, but it was just a shack up if you were living together.
I am sorry to hear of the break up, but hopefully you two can work it out to putting your relationship back together.
Or, do consider on reading "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage" in case you do decide to get married.
Otherwise, just move on with your life.
2007-02-08 22:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be better than ok. Each day will get easier. It sounds like you have seperated for the right reason. Its weird how we can spend years with someone because we love them, but were never 'really' happy, its like something 'good' is missing, its good that your now free and open to what may come. You never stop loving someone, but only very few times will we ever 'be in love', I hope your abe to find that - I know you will. All the Best.
2007-02-09 19:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years is a long time, and although you will always love him, eventually you will learn how to love someone else. Its then you will realise you ARE alright. But for now go and have some fun.
2007-02-08 23:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by mel_leno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not an expert , but it catches my attention when you say "finally broken up", it sounds to me that it has been long time coming!...the good part of it is , your'e one your way !!!, the hard part of it is,it's gonna take a while to get back to the norm'........it takes a lot of courage to do what you did , you'll be fine , keep your head up, and take it as it comes.......good luck
2007-02-08 22:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time and some good chocolate heals a broken heart
2007-02-08 22:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkin spice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u will surely take time to overcome the pain but then u gotta move on coz it's just giving both of pain..............................or u guys need a proper counselling I believe ...................maybe the desicion is too fast .................u guys shud really talk coz breaking a 12 years old relationship is not a joke
2007-02-08 22:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put up with 12 years and no ring.
2007-02-08 22:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow you might wanna try to get back together 12 years is alot
2007-02-08 22:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Samy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be okay with time. You may need counseling to help you if need be too! I wish you the best.
2007-02-08 22:16:24 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋