im bi and im a girl and i like a girl in my school shes a little older than me but i think she might like me cuz i heard from a kid in her grade that theres alot of girls in that grade who r bi and yesterday she sat down next to me when i was sitting on a bench all alone and i had my hands folded on my lap cuz i was cold and she was talking to me for a bit she put her hand on my hands and said she was gonna go now and when she was getting up she kinda slid her hand down from my hands to the bench by sliding over my leg and she touched my leg so idk if that was a sign she liked me or if it was an accident... but my question is "is there any chance she likes me too?"
that was a question i asked and ppl have said that shes flirting with me and i should flirt back... well heres my next question "help! how should i flirt with her.. plz give me sum ideas on that"
2007-02-08 13:55:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-02-08 13:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mario N 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Its really hard to tell ... and especially considering that you are in high school, there's a much bigger risk involved in trying to find out. If she's not, you don't want her running around and talking about you to everyone else!
From what you've told me, it seems like if she is interested, she's definitely not afraid to make the first move. You could start out by some innocent physical contact -- if you're talking to her before class, for example, touch her arm or squeeze her hand when you tell her goodbye. Or if you're walking out of school together, link your arm with hers as you walk. This is something that alot of girls do that wouldn't be considered "weird", but will give you a good opportunity to see how she reacts when you're physically close to each other ... like if she leans into you and changes her stance so there will be more contact.
Also, invite her to do something after school one day. Don't make it sound like a date, just like you want to hang out. Get her away from school and see how she reacts to you. Considering she's already started a little of the "touchy-feely", if she's interested in taking it farther ... chances are, she will.
Work sex/dating with other girls into a conversation. Not one that your having in front of all of your friends, but one that your having together alone. You can even make it gossipy ... you said that you heard there were alot of bisexual girls in her grade. Mention something about that. See how she responds.
But, DON'T DO ALL THIS AT ONCE! Start off slow and let your instincts tell you when to move forward. You don't want to do all this in one day or it will blow your non-chalant cover. I wish you the best of luck, dear.
2007-02-08 14:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhh that is tricky. But it does appear that she likes you tho, otherwise she would not have sat next to you and touched your leg like that. I am not gay, so I wouldn't know how to flirt with a girl, but just smile at her, talk to her, give her compliments. Try and find out what she likes to do, and take an interest in that perhaps? But smiling in the hall, saying hello, giving little compliments. It will all work in your favour.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 14:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult one
try teasing her
touch her with quick but exciting ways
then wait for her reaction
2007-02-08 15:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by a_bhijee_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋