2007-02-08 13:42:58 · 16 answers · asked by make_me_sweat_692002 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Stop trying to be something you aren't (heterosexual), and get some counseling to help you understand yourself and how to cope. BTW, gay or straight, you do not have to be sexually active in your lifetime. You can be gay, but be celibate if you don't want to be involved sexually with the same sex.
Whatever you do, don't get involved with a woman and think that will "cure" you. It won't and all you will become is a liar and a cheat and hurt some innocent woman.
2007-02-08 13:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really... you can fight the feeling but, it will drive you crazy. I would suggest that you do what feels natural to you. I was in the closet for 20 years and now that I am out to my family and friends, I feel so good. If you are bi or gay, just accept it and live your life to the fullest. There is nothing like a man being with another man......
2007-02-09 08:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes-- but only after you die.
Check out the gay center and they'll help you find a gay-friendly counselor who will help you deal with these feelings- which are Not going away. Yes, sometimes it's hard to accept your sexuality but it's so much worse to try to hide it and pretend you're something else. Once you meet other gay people who are well adjusted, it won't be so hard. Check out gay social activities and clubs. have fun. Be safe. Hugs
2007-02-08 22:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you must have hot and intense sex with adult men, daily. Only then will these desires stop, like magic! Instant cure.
2007-02-09 00:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a Christian. Some people do have more of a tendency to be homosexual and that may be a struggle. But keep fighting, gay is bad.
2007-02-08 22:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by glsbnewt21 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be true to yourself, whoever that may be.. you are feeling shame, and that's what many of us (gays) go through early on.. it's taught to us through social cues and often stressed relationships with our fathers... Take it slow, be easy on yourself, and work towards being the healthiest gay man out there... (Christian or not...)
2007-02-12 11:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fish gotta swim, birds gotta fly.
If it is YOUR fantasy, you have got to except the truth that is in front of you. Be yourself and enjoy life.
To thine own self be true...here's ya one chance Fancy don't let me down.
2007-02-08 23:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by will s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. not really, unless you go to 3 weeks of hetero rehab just like Ted Haggert.
2007-02-08 21:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by closetcoon_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to stop anything the desire gets stronger.
2007-02-08 21:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you are. don't try to change - it will only cause a lot of heartache and waste a lot of your life. don't be ashamed or afraid of who you are- embrace it. Love yourself, go live your life, and have fun.
2007-02-08 22:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋