If i date a lady who 16 years younger, is this wrong, or does the age matter?

Question

Im 33 shes 17 would this be wrong to have a relationship. I dont know,im not a perv.

Answer 1

No it is not wrong, Im 17 years old and my boyfriend is 30 years old, Age does not matter, just because she is young does not mean that she will leave you, and that she is going through some phase. Sometimes the age difference does bother my man,but at the end of the day we are so happy together, but if you are comfortable and she is comfortable pursue this relationship :)
The only problem might come up is if her parents dont like the age difference, luckilly the age difference between me and my boyfriend dosent bother my parents.....I hope everything works out for you :)

Answer 2

Its not the age gap , its the generation gap.

If she was 37 & you were 53 , it would be ok coz , both of you would have a lot in common and could communicate on the same wave length.

However at 17 she is still not mature enough, still not experienced enough, still not aware or sure of what she wants or (more importantly) what she does not want. She still has to complete her education , find her footing in the world & understand the world a lot better.

Before I got married, I had a lot of young girls (some 10 years younger than me) between the ages of 14 to 18 , who had a huge crush on me.

Girls that age are attracted to nice more mature men - who may already be husband material.

Treat the kid gently - but dont take undue advantage (physically or emotionally) - what you think is harmless fun - may leave a scar on her life.

Answer 3

You are a man twice her age!! She is still a young teenager.

At 33 you have the maturity.

Maybe not as you are even contemplating a relationship.

Answer 4

It is great to date a younger lady... she'll be loads of fun thrill and full of excitement... she would love to date with a rather mature man, which normally girls at that age fantasize and love to experience as well.... so "make hay while the sun shines" its your day go for her, enjoy her to the fullest, she'll give you all that perhaps you could not demand from your age female..
Girls at this time of their life are at their full blossom, so enjoy the moments you get to spend with her...
I have had girls much younger to me and it was everytime a memorable experience....
Lastly if you are so much concernd on this issue, then leave it, send her to me... I'll give her a time of her life !!!

Answer 5

Im 17 and I would'nt want to start a relationship with you, and my mother would get you arrested! I dont think it would be safe coz of what her parents might do if they find out. But if you were 43 and she was 27, it would be fine. But would you want your 17yr old daughter having a relationship with your golfing buddy...?

Answer 6

I don't think it 'wrong' but u should (as im sure u do) be prepared for it to be brief...17 is no more than a child and at that age she won't be fully mature, she won't know what she wants now

Answer 7

you are real immature.. and in the long run it does not work because she will be attracted by nature to the age group she fits into eventually.. face it you will poop.. and not have same interests in anything.. you may be just a egotistical man rather than a actual pervert.. your mind is here hers is there.. get some balance ..grow up.. make sure you are true friends and partners as well as sexual mates before you go to far

Answer 8

Yes until she turns 18 then it's fine if you think that, that is morally ok. I would not want to date a 33 yr old though.

Answer 9

i dont think dating her is wrong. but getting serious is wrong. you are at the age where you are more apt to want a long term relationship. she is much too young. just keep that in mind.

Answer 10

i have a 17 year old daughter and there would be no way you would date my daughter, and at your age what could you possibly have in common with a 17 year old girl... thats robbing the cradle....