Do u return home after having sex to do it again with your partner? How does this make you feel, do you fake it, do you make excuses not too...What?...(I'm curious as to what goes through your minds)
I don't justify cheating but there has to be a reasons obviously...
2007-02-08 13:11:37 · 21 answers · asked by Susie2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree Neil, about there being 2 sides...and someone answered!
2007-02-08 13:22:28 · update #1
Issues.
2007-02-08 13:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should pick up a copy of "Henry and June" (the book, not the movie) from the unexpurgiated diaries of Anais Nin. It gives a wonderful insight into the minds of those having an affair and is quite interesting on a literary and historical level.
2007-02-08 21:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA I RETURNED HOME BUT DIDNT HAVE SEX WITH HER TILL D NEXT DAY, NO I DIDNT MAKE EXCUSES EITHER, N NO AGAIN I DONT HAVE TO FAKE ANYTHING, N SEX IS THE ONLY THING ON YOUR MIND AT THAT TIME, THATS THE REASON, BUT IT CAME BACK TO BITE ME IN THE *** AS TIME WENT ON, SORRY TO SAY, BUT ID DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN IT WAS MAGIC,
2007-02-09 12:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably difficult the first time. Feelings of guilt probably come into play. I am sure if it is an ongoing affair it gets easier and easier. i had a girlfriend who was cheating on me, and when I found out and confronted her, she almost had me believing that I had the wrong information.
2007-02-08 22:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by electricpong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to where you are lonely and sad and feel unwanted. Then you meet someone who treats you right. Next you know - you feel like you are cheating by being with your spouse! Don't ever do it. Never a good idea. You WILL get caught.
2007-02-08 21:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by lucki female 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i have been unfaithful to my husband, but we have no sex life ne way, im not using that as an excuse but its true, i dont even feel guilty after doing it and going back home.
normally i get in sit down for a while and then jump in the shower or bath
2007-02-09 07:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by sammy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe women who cheat would come home to hubby. But, as for men.... Well there are some women who happen to get bacterial infections a lot. The reason is that their men don't wash in between women. Gross if you think about it.
2007-02-08 22:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at first my ex began buying gifts, than after awhile began to pick arguments, than after he moved out with her, he refused to even sit with me outside the attorney's office on the street, seemed as if he even acknowledged me or spoke he would be cheating her. after we left the attorney's office i looked over on the side of the building and could clearly see her sitting in his truck with a full view of the bench outside the attorney's office. so instead of being loyal to me his wife, he was being loyal to her instead. wondered what was going on in his mind, and why he treated me as if he never knew me. the home wrecker could see the bench and me sitting there, she also could see if he sat down and talked to me, sure did hurt me as we weren't even divorced and no divorce had been discussed yet. i had to wonder just what power she had over the man i still loved.
2007-02-09 10:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a cheater. I don't like it. It made me feel horrible. I cheat because women nowaday don't appreciate faithful men. Being faithful is a big turn off in society today. Women nowaday only appreciate men who cheat on them.
2007-02-09 06:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry this is not intended to be rude but who will really answer this question? I can't because I'm not a cheat and no cheat would be honest enough to answer it.
But please remember that there are always two sides to every coin.
2007-02-08 21:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by NEIL P 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋